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What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« on: July 09, 2012, 11:36:34 AM »
So I just started knitting last year and I really, really love it.  (My handle on Ravelry is "xtalmpls" in case there are any other knitters here.)

Anyway, knitting can be a frugal hobby, sort of, but it can also get really, really expensive in a hurry.

For a knitter or crocheter, visiting a yarn store can be a thrilling experience.  All those colors, fibers, and textures!  It's a place of pure potential, where your creativity and skill can meet up with the raw materials to make anything you can think of.

The excitement of All! That! Potential! causes many knitters to start stockpiling yarn.  There's an acronym in the knitting world: SABLE.  It stands for "Stash Acquired Beyond Life Expectancy."  People who knit love to joke about the outrageous size of their stash, and there are plenty of anecdotes about hiding stashes from SOs, stashes taking over closets, etc. along with threads in knitting forums where you "flash your stash," or show off the yarn you've acquired.

ANYWAY, I started knitting in May of last year and started acquiring a modest stash of my own.   Luxurious sock yarns, basic cheerfully-colored cotton for making dishcloths, warm worsted wool for hats and scarves, etc. etc. 

It was in January of this year when YET ANOTHER box of yarn arrived in the post.  My born-frugal husband looked at me and said, "you've gone crazy!"

And that's when we made our bet.

We had a trip coming up in June to the UK.  I bet my husband that I would quit cold turkey and buy no yarn whatsoever until our trip, which was five months away.  If I won, he had to visit two yarn shops with me -- cheerfully -- while we were in the UK.  (I'm not sure what he would have gotten had I lost, but I was determined not to lose.) 

At first it was hard not buying any yarn, but as time went on, it got easier and easier.

Also, I kept right on knitting.  I knitted using yarn from my stash.  And... here's the weird thing... I hardly made a dent in it.  In five months, I used up 5%, maybe 10% at the most, of my existing yarn.

Finally, our trip drew near.  We spent nine days in England on what was, overall, a pretty frugal trip.  In London, we went to many different museums (most museums in London are free!).  Then we drove north and stayed in an inexpensive rental cottage where we had a fully-equipped kitchen.  We went hiking all over the place, cooked half of our meals at home, and brought picnic lunches along for our hikes.

Finally we went to Newcastle and, as promised, DH accompanied me to a yarn store.  And the funny thing was... I didn't even feel like buying very much.  I bought some pretty sock yarn for my mom and mother-in-law, some inexpensive sock yarn for me, and some beautiful laceweight that I still haven't had time to do anything with.

Anyway!!  Here's what I learned:

  • Don't go into stores.If I can't see (and touch!) the beautiful yarn, I won't be tempted to buy it.
  • My time is worth more than my yarn.  Before my "yarn fast," I was unable to resist the siren call of bargain yarn.  I bought bags full of clearance yarn because it was "cheap."  However, most of that yarn is still sitting in my closet, in plastic bins.  It takes a lot of time to knit.  And that's why knitting can be a frugal hobby.  If you have the discipline to just complete the projects you already have before you, you probably won't need to buy yarn very often.  And then when you are ready to start a new project, you can buy the yarn that is most appropriate in terms of fiber, color, and gauge, not being afraid to spend a little more money, simply because knitting does take so much time.  I've learned that it's more important to buy the right yarn, rather than stashing everything in sight like a demented squirrel.
  • I don't need to buy yarn  It's funny, but after not buying any yarn at all for five months, something shifted.  I thought that once my "yarn fast" was up, I'd have a lot of pent-up demand and would go nuts buying yarn again.  That turned out not to be the case!  Instead, I'm a little bit dismayed by how much beautiful yarn I have that I haven't had a chance to use yet.  Knitting a pair of socks takes me at least two weeks, and right now I have enough sock yarn for... twelve pairs.  That's at least six months' more worth of knitting, if I don't knit anything else.  I can probably get by without buying any more yarn for at least another year, maybe two.


It's been a month since we got home from our trip, and, since coming home, I have yet to buy any new yarn.  I am much better mentally-prepared to be satisfied with what I have.  If I need to buy something specific to make a gift for someone, I will, but I'm so glad I had this challenge for myself.  It really taught me a different way to do things.

I would encourage anyone to think of a challenge related to your own hobby or other shopping compulsion... what can you quit altogether for five or six months?  Make it into a bet with someone you love.  If you win, you'll probably learn a lot about yourself (not to mention saving a crapton of money.)
« Last Edit: July 10, 2012, 06:56:25 AM by Xtal »

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2012, 12:36:54 PM »
Great lessons, and ties in perfectly with your signature.

Sometimes not only do we not need something, we don't even really want it.. we just think we do.  We want it out of habit.

Way to break that mold.  Thanks for sharing.
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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #2 on: July 09, 2012, 03:38:21 PM »
What an inspiring post!  Fellow knitter (hence the handle) waving at you.

My yarn stash is minimal though when compared to my fabric stash.  Yikes.  The plan has been to put a dent in the stash which I have been successfully doing fabricwise--not for the yarn though. My son requested a pair of socks but the only sock yarn in the stash were non-staid colors.  I did venture into the yarn store for some conservative "guy" sock yarn.  But that's OK.  College Boy loves homemade socks so his Mum is glad to oblige. 

Anyway...the OP's comment on buying the right yarn hits home here.  The sock yarn in my stash was not my first or second choice color--it was the bargain stuff, you know?

My personal challenge is to make as many holiday gifts as I can from my stash of yarn and fabric, buying only the essentials as needed for projects (thread, zippers, lining).  Your post should help keep me on task so thank you!
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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #3 on: July 09, 2012, 03:41:36 PM »
Hee hee... "demented squirrel"! I knit too and know the siren call of pretty yarns.

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #4 on: July 09, 2012, 04:45:52 PM »
That "SABLE" thing would be funny if it weren't so true. My mom's 78 and has most of a room full of fabric that was "just too cheap to pass up".

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2012, 05:05:44 PM »
I have the same yarn problem! And paper problem! And fabric problem! And "that looks like a fun project to try, let me get the beginner kit!" problem!

My husband got frustrated with me one day and told me I have to finish a few of my half-done projects before I can buy more crafty stuff. So I did finish a few, which I gave away as gifts (that's frugal, right?). And I've used up almost all of my cotton yarn stash on a beach bag currently in process. But then Michaels put the cottons on sale this week, so we shall see...

I do crochet almost every night, though, and I keep a project on my desk at work for conference calls and stuff.


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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #6 on: July 10, 2012, 06:49:14 AM »
But then Michaels put the cottons on sale this week, so we shall see...

D'oh!!!  I love kitchen cotton.  It's just so cheery and bright and cheap!  I have many, many balls of kitchen cotton already, but I'm tempted to go to Michaels just because there are some colors I've used up and I'd like to replace.  Kitchen cotton reminds me of the big box of 64 crayons.  I might go on my lunchbreak, but I will keep it under ten dollars.

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I do crochet almost every night, though, and I keep a project on my desk at work for conference calls and stuff.

I knit at work, too.  I do tech support on the phone, and so I have a lot of time where I'm waiting for a reboot or whatever where my hands are free. 

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #7 on: July 10, 2012, 03:29:44 PM »
Great post. This is really making me think about my music habits. At least what I do for piano can be written off since I teach... but my violin lessons (and violin rental, travel time, and gas) take a chunk out of my earnings every month. It's hard to cut back or eliminate on this category since I really do enjoy it AND it's good for my brain (translation: BOOHOOHOO! WAH!). I guess I have to decide if the tradeoff is worth it or if I can just delay gratification and pick up lessons again once I've hit FI and don't have to work full time for someone else all day. My current savings rate  is shamefully low for this community.

I also have a tendency to buy sheet music on impulse, which I've been fighting rather well over the last year. That stuff can get really expensive if you want to buy a whole series of teaching materials or a particularly good edition of something like the Beethoven Sontatas or Chopin Etudes. I do write it off but that certainly doesn't make it free!!

Thanks for the inspration, Xtal.

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« Reply #8 on: July 10, 2012, 04:40:35 PM »
I can definitely relate.  I am a dabbler.  Crochet, a tiny bit of knitting, but mostly quilting.  When I think of the thousands I spent in the late 90's/ early 00's building a stash of fabrics...

And there is no way I could use all of it.  I had probably 10 large clear bins of fabric, and am now down to 4, plus a few small bins of scraps.  Most of this I have given away.  My quilting group and friends tend to do a lot of trades now.  When a friend needed purples and teals (2 of my favorites), I took her my bin and let her shop from it.  Most of what I have now is just fabric I love.  The only time I may ever buy fabric is if I run out of white/beige.

Not going into the stores...this is key.  Also, sometimes I make a rule that I can't start a new project until I finish two.  You can finish a lot of projects that way.

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« Reply #9 on: July 12, 2012, 06:54:38 PM »
Not entering the stores is a big part of it for me. I'm a fellow knitter who has way too much wool for a sub-tropical climate. I can only justify a small amount of it with the fact that I actually unplugged the heater for my apartment for late winter this year :D. Since there are only a couple of LYS near me, I tend to use the internet more, which is a mixed blessing. I've been really pleased with the quality of KnitPicks, which is definitely on the less expensive side of things, but I've had to be careful about all the little extras in the clearance section. It does seem a little easier (for me at least) to put things back online rather than in person though, since I'll peruse the shop and then the owner will start chatting and I'll feel obliged to support local businesses a lot more than I had planned...

With all the dabbling, the risk for me is that I know you can't start most crafts too cheap. There's always this balancing act between giving something a good chance of being fun and good and not sinking too much money into an unknown subject. It's the difference between cheap yarn and decent yarn, between a sewing machine that's the lowest model versus the more sturdy one. But, at least we can try to control the stashing! (I had never seen that acronym before - it's so fitting for so many people.) 

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« Reply #10 on: July 13, 2012, 06:31:37 AM »
Loving this post for two reasons - one, that I have gone through the same journey.  I gave up my yarn shopping about a year ago.  I knit real slowly so I guess I've got several years of stash.  Actually, I MUST use some up to make Christmas presents this year, and be super frugal.

Two - I'm in Newcastle, and tourists rarely come to visit us, so yay!  I hope you enjoyed it - and that it was The Knit Studio shop (at Blackfriars) that you were in as it is the best in Newcastle  :)

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2012, 09:02:08 PM »
MPLS=Minneapolis? I'm asking because I live in Minneapolis and it would be awesome to know another Mustachian nearby!

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« Reply #12 on: July 16, 2012, 06:00:00 AM »
Loving this post for two reasons - one, that I have gone through the same journey.  I gave up my yarn shopping about a year ago.  I knit real slowly so I guess I've got several years of stash.  Actually, I MUST use some up to make Christmas presents this year, and be super frugal.

Two - I'm in Newcastle, and tourists rarely come to visit us, so yay!  I hope you enjoyed it - and that it was The Knit Studio shop (at Blackfriars) that you were in as it is the best in Newcastle  :)

It was indeed The Knit Studio!  The woman who owns the store is very nice -- she gave us tea and cookies, and let us use the wi-fi.  Of course, it probably didn't hurt that I bought a bagful of yarn.  :)  She even directed us to nearby John Lewis to look for some cotton yarn which she didn't carry.  John Lewis was incredible to me!  I mean, it was just an ordinary department store, but the fact that they have a "Haberdashery" department with fabric, yarn, and notions... we don't really have this in department stores in the U.S. any more.

I enjoyed Newcastle.  We didn't have much time there, but we managed to eat lunch at a wonderful Thai place sort of near/under the bridge, and we got a look at the cathedral.

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #13 on: July 16, 2012, 06:00:35 AM »
MPLS=Minneapolis? I'm asking because I live in Minneapolis and it would be awesome to know another Mustachian nearby!

Yep, I'm in Minneapolis!  Maybe one of us should start a thread in the "meetup" section.

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Re: What I learned from five months of not buying yarn
« Reply #14 on: July 16, 2012, 03:23:34 PM »
Good post, Xtal, I can relate on a lot of levels!

I knit too, and I've found that any kind of browsing in stores can spiral into wanting more and more. It's especially true for me of clothes shopping--simply stopping it for a few months made me not want to do it at all anymore, really.

Off to put some of my yarn to good use... :)

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« Reply #15 on: August 13, 2012, 08:43:39 PM »
We've found limitless yarn and great old school knitting stuff at our favourite second hand store - all forgotten and neglected in various nooks and crannies.Those old ladies whose cast off estate flotsam and jetsome ends up there were often really into knitting!  Get to know your local second hand store and you can get oodles for almost free.

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« Reply #16 on: August 14, 2012, 08:59:52 AM »
My husband got frustrated with me one day and told me I have to finish a few of my half-done projects before I can buy more crafty stuff.


Sounds like my husband!  I'm a crocheter and quilter and after years of watching me buy expensive (but on sale!) materials and then give away my work, he insisted that I start actively selling it to fund my "habit".