Congrats! I spent WAY more than that (~30% the average in my city, though), and people still acted like I was crazy for not wanting (to pay for) certain items or services. I also didn't want an engagement ring and people were all up in our business about it. Thanks for your concern, folks!
Good job staying strong on that!
It helps that I'm no youngster (42) so I think that people are less likely to share their opinions quite so forcefully. Plus everyone knows I'm a bit odd so I guess they kind of expect it.
I forgot about booze. But my family don't drink. My husband to be doesn't drink. His mum might like a wine and his dad loves a beer but since we're having lunch at their house after the park bit they can drink whatever they like out of their own fridge.
I must admit we're also very fortunate in our families. My brother was married in my grandparents backyard with about 10 guests. My fiancé's sister was married in her parents lounge room (it was supposed to be in the yard but it rained) with about 30 guests but they catered themselves from the supermarket. Our parents have low expectations. My parents and aunt are flying half way around the world to attend (I offered to pay but they said no) but my fiancé's parents are going to host them in their home so that's a big saving on hotels.
And if I'm completely honest it isn't really about saving money. I have NEVER wanted a wedding. I just find them really really odd. I love the idea of being married but not of the actual wedding bit. I did however want our families to meet and it seemed to make sense to do something around a wedding to facilitate that so this was the best compromise. And of course the fact it means eating burritos is a big plus!