After years of investing/gambling in the market, I finally gave in to having my cousin manage my money. Although his fees are high, I feel I am guarded from a large downside risk of a market. I am still on the fence watching the market soar with my mediocre returns this year.
I'm not sure why you keep pointing out that other people are "gambling in the market." So are you. You may be guarded from the downside (though I have my doubts about that), but you are also missing out on the upside. Why is your cousin's high-fee, "low risk" approach better than a good asset allocation and a solid emergency fund? If you have the cash on hand, you can score big in a market downturn -- you are buying at sale prices when everyone else is selling in a panic. That is exactly what we did in 2008-09 and is one of the main reasons behind our amazing net worth growth in the past 5 years.
I'm not sure why you are saying that I keep pointing something out? This is just my second day on the forum.
With a 25% return in one year from 4-5 million, I thought the OP was
solely invested in stocks which was not the case.
I used to gamble big in the market. Puts and calls, options that would expire to zero, investing in things "I thought" were good. Thing I came to realize, I was gambling. I was not schooled on the topic of money management, and I felt the average Joe investor like myself ultimately gets burned
I lost faith in my ability to manage my own money, I've lost more than I've ever made. Paying someone else to do it doesn't sit well either but I feel like I am caught between a rock and hard place. I just hate to see people get slammed by being 100% in anything. The market will crash and until you get burned, some people think 25% annual returns are normal.
You are absolutely right, I buy on the dips all the time. I send chunks of money into my 401K on the days the market slides. That's about the extent of my investing strategy for now. My net worth stands at $823K and I can only imagine how nice life would be if I ever got some sizeable returns! I am on the fence of managing it again as I watch the market soar but I can't stomach losing a big chunk of my portfolio again. At age 47/49, we want to retire soon, time is not on our side to get too crazy IMHO