"Are both of your work areas (current and potential future) far greater cost of living, or in very bad parts of town? If not, it seems like more of a mental block, since the condo is paid off."
This is the reason. Current condo is 250k, if I tried to move closer to present job, it would cost me $450k for 2 bd/bath or $550k for similar place near potential future job. Also, present condo is perfect place to FIRE, property taxes are low, condo fees are very reasonable, and schools are excellent (in case I have children in the future). The location is off of the edge of a major metropolitan area, part-urban / part-rural and close to an airport. Grocery store is walking/biking distance as well.
Also, the reason I have 90k in 529 plans is because I always planned to do an MBA at some point. I am no longer interested in doing that. I should have instead put that money in Roth IRA, but bygones are bygones. I figure I'd just have to let it sit for now. Maybe when I FIRE, I'd go back to community college to learn carpentry or something with that money.