Author Topic: Relaunched software dev career after being SAHP / working pt job for 15 years!  (Read 3671 times)

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I've only posted a handful of times, mostly about books and board games, but I'm a longtime reader of this site and it's been so motivating. I just wanted to share an accomplishment that's going to make a big difference in our FIRE journey.

It's kind of weird to brag about getting a job when the overarching goal on these forums is to STOP working, but that's just where I am on this path right now.

Anyway, many moons ago, I worked as a software dev.  It was awesome. After having our first DC, I decided to SAH for a few years.  Then we had our second DC.  We were happily living a fairly simple lifestyle on DH's salary alone, so I wasn't in a rush to go back full-time.... plus I figured it would be tough to get back into tech.  Once our youngest was in school, I started working part-time in a role that really had little to do with my tech background.  We were still living on DH's salary so the part-time income was just extra savings.  Time just kept marching on this way. I really thought it would be impossible to get back into my old career anyway-- between the kids' busy schedules and my part-time work, it was difficult to set aside the time I would need to really dig in and refresh my skills to become job-ready again.

Last year, when the pandemic hit, my part-time job dwindled down to almost nothing and I found myself with a lot of time on my hands.  I realized that if there was ever gonna be an opportunity for me to get back into dev work, this was it.  I threw myself full-time into rebuilding a skillset and working on a website with a portfolio of projects.  I also studied/prepared like crazy for the interview process, because technical interviews are notoriously difficult. I said to myself that if I can't find something after about 6-8 months of applying for jobs, maybe I'll start thinking of a plan B.

Well, to my complete surprise, I ended up getting an amazing offer within the first month of interviewing.  I couldn't believe it....  let me tell you, impostor syndrome is a very real thing, and nothing prepares you for the crushing insecurity of re-entering a difficult field when you've been away from it for 15 years.  Months later, I *still* can't believe my good fortune!  I love working as a software engineer again, and I work HARD every single day because there's no way I'm going to squander this amazing opportunity.

I guess it really is never too late to make a positive change in your life!

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Nice job!  Inspiring!

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I've only posted a handful of times, mostly about books and board games, but I'm a longtime reader of this site and it's been so motivating. I just wanted to share an accomplishment that's going to make a big difference in our FIRE journey.

It's kind of weird to brag about getting a job when the overarching goal on these forums is to STOP working, but that's just where I am on this path right now.

Anyway, many moons ago, I worked as a software dev.  It was awesome. After having our first DC, I decided to SAH for a few years.  Then we had our second DC.  We were happily living a fairly simple lifestyle on DH's salary alone, so I wasn't in a rush to go back full-time.... plus I figured it would be tough to get back into tech.  Once our youngest was in school, I started working part-time in a role that really had little to do with my tech background.  We were still living on DH's salary so the part-time income was just extra savings.  Time just kept marching on this way. I really thought it would be impossible to get back into my old career anyway-- between the kids' busy schedules and my part-time work, it was difficult to set aside the time I would need to really dig in and refresh my skills to become job-ready again.

Last year, when the pandemic hit, my part-time job dwindled down to almost nothing and I found myself with a lot of time on my hands.  I realized that if there was ever gonna be an opportunity for me to get back into dev work, this was it.  I threw myself full-time into rebuilding a skillset and working on a website with a portfolio of projects.  I also studied/prepared like crazy for the interview process, because technical interviews are notoriously difficult. I said to myself that if I can't find something after about 6-8 months of applying for jobs, maybe I'll start thinking of a plan B.

Well, to my complete surprise, I ended up getting an amazing offer within the first month of interviewing.  I couldn't believe it....  let me tell you, impostor syndrome is a very real thing, and nothing prepares you for the crushing insecurity of re-entering a difficult field when you've been away from it for 15 years.  Months later, I *still* can't believe my good fortune!  I love working as a software engineer again, and I work HARD every single day because there's no way I'm going to squander this amazing opportunity.

I guess it really is never too late to make a positive change in your life!

Bravo!

15 months is tough to come back from these days.

Getting back after 15 years is quite the feat (and if I might add, as a female even harder).

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Getting back after 15 years is quite the feat (and if I might add, as a female even harder).

Thanks! To be honest, I think being female may have helped get my resume a closer look, due to companies wanting to diversify and make an effort to have representation from groups that are currently underrepresented in that field.  So it may have helped me at least get interviews from various companies, but unfortunately that only served to add to my already-crushing insecurity, because now I worried that people would look at me like "she only got the job because she's a woman". That really drives me to work even harder each day, because I never want an assumption like that to appear true in any way.

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This is mighty impressive.

If you felt comfortable someday to share more details on what you did to make your resume more attractive to the employers then I'd highly appreciate it. I often get asked by others how to enter this field, and your perspective will add a lot of value to my own knowledge/understanding of what to and not to advise.

 

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Congrats on the new job smileyface.  This is great news!  I like hearing about flexible career paths, and making it back to the workforce.  It makes me hopeful for things like taking a break from work, or leanFire then returning to work.  I'm glad you're enjoying the work.

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being female may have helped get my resume a closer look, due to companies wanting to diversify and make an effort to have representation from groups that are currently underrepresented in that field.

Companies diversify because the broader range of perspectives adds resilience to a team. If the employer didn't believe in the value you offer, they wouldn't hire you.

From my personal experience, as a late 30's white male - working on a homogenous team is the worst. I found the insular culture very unpleasant. I would never go up to the new hire and say "OMG, girl!", but diversifying legitimately improves the team.

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Thats wonderful to hear! Can you share what kind of software you will be developing?

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This is mighty impressive.

If you felt comfortable someday to share more details on what you did to make your resume more attractive to the employers then I'd highly appreciate it. I often get asked by others how to enter this field, and your perspective will add a lot of value to my own knowledge/understanding of what to and not to advise.

I would love to share. I don't want to give enough details to out myself, but if my experience could help someone else get a tech job, I'd be thrilled!

First, I looked at the sad state of my resume.  I had been working part-time for several years after SAH with my kids for several years.  The pt job wasn't a tech job AT ALL, but (without giving too many details) it was the sort of thing where even though it wasn't in my job description, my tech experience often came in very handy. I was kind of the resident "technical person".  I spun my resume to highlight and emphasize these things!  I also did many, many technical things on a volunteer basis for an organization over the years, which I also listed. That sort of brings me to my next point. I *tried* to get an internship, but I had zero luck. Here I was, dying to work for free to get some experience, but I got no responses at all!  It became clear pretty quickly that internships were for college kids, not early-40s moms, lol.

Next, I decided I was going to be a front-end developer. This is because I looked at the curriculum of various bootcamps and intensives, and they seemed to focus strongly on front-end. I figured that if career-changer bootcamp grads could go on to land these front-end jobs, then perhaps the barrier to entry wouldn't be so bad for a non-traditional candidate like me. I figured I was basically like a bootcamp grad to potential employers, but with the added bonus of a degree in computer science and some years of (outdated) experience.

I looked at tons of job listings and noticed that React (a Javascript library) came up again and again, so I decided that was my first priority was to get good at React. I did some tutorials, created several different projects using React, and then I put together a portfolio website to showcase them.

I started applying for jobs on Indeed and other sites and preparing like crazy for interviews at the same time.  I would look at job descriptions and see what skills were listed. For each skill, I would start researching lists of common interview questions for that skill and preparing answers. So I had this file I kept adding to, and I had sections like "Javascript questions", "CSS questions", "React questions", "SQL questions", etc with tons of questions/answers for each one. I also had answers prepared for questions about my projects, like "Tell me about your favorite project", "Tell me about a project that went poorly", and for all the typical "behavioral" interview questions.

I gotta say, this preparation sounds insane but it was incredibly helpful. On my interviews, I'd say about 2/3 of the questions were something I had seen before and had a solid answer prepared. I also did a lot of Leetcode (a website where you can practice for the kinds of coding questions asked on interviews).

Ultimately I only interviewed with three companies, but got two offers. The one I accepted is a total dream job, I can't believe I landed here.  This is going to make a big difference in our FIRE journey, too. Accomplishing this goal was a lot of work, but it was SO worth it!

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Just wanted to add my congratulations! Very happy for you and the new job.

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Just wanted to add my congratulations! Very happy for you and the new job.

Thank you! Like I said in my OP, I feel weird celebrating getting *back* into a career when the common goal in this forum is to stop working earlier in life. But it's just where I am in life right now, and it's going to have a real impact on our FIRE journey!

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I love this!