Cindy, we've been there and are there. Our son, at 14 AML Leukemia, chemo, BMT. This spring he graduated college. Lot's of very hard days. Our lives came crashing down, my wife had to quit work for two years. It was 2008 and the market was soon to crash as well. I kept my job and cared for our youngest son while my wife lived in another state trying to help save the oldest. I lived on the highway burning that over 4 dollar a gallon gas to get myself and our youngest together with mom and oldest son. Friends and family helped me take care of the youngest son. It's tough. He made it while so many didn't, nothing we did right and nothing they did wrong. His prognosis was worse than many who didn't make it and he beat the odds. Financially we were pretty frugal, once this happened we really shut down all unnecessary spending. Once everybody came home my wife went back to work, but the spending never really ramped up. We actually ramped up savings more as income returned to normal. Unfortunately, it wasn't that way for everyone. Many families we're in no financial shape to fight cancer. We watched them lose jobs, homes, cars and marriages due to financial reasons. My wife didn't set idle those two years, she did then and does now raise money for cancer research hospitals. It's in the hundreds of thousands of dollars now. Personally we're now millionaires and have no debt. We're still working till he turns at least 26 to keep his medical insurance coverage. Without the ACA I'm afraid we'd be in a troubling situation. In 2019 he turns 26 and I worry daily about how we're going to get him health insurance if we lose the ACA. Most Mustacians would be early retired with our NW of two million dollars. We just can't, we have to be the fall back plan and safety net for him. Our net worth is growing at about $500 a day and we don't spend nearly that much, what Mustacian does? I don't really care. Whatever we don't use in this life will be donated to fight the beast of cancer. Good luck. We know it's rough, you can brag a little.