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fallstoclimb

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I love this site
« on: November 05, 2015, 07:49:46 AM »
By my very-generous savings rate formula, we are now at a 45% savings rate.  More excitingly, I know what we need to do to get to 50% - max my Roth IRA, which is a goal for 2016. 

The generous formula:
(cash savings + all retirement contributions + mortgage principle)/
(take home income + pre tax retirement contributions)

I discovered this site in (I think) early 2012, when I was wondering if it was crazy to throw all my money at my remaining ~$65,000 in student loans.  I had an hour+ commute to work (although thankfully on public transit), two cars, no assets, too many clothes, and put only 5% into my retirement account at work. I felt trapped and unhappy.

Now we are saving 45% every month!  The student loans were paid off a year ago, and our retirement accounts have already recovered from years of low contributions.  I got a new job and bought a house 3 miles away, purged my wardrobe, sold a car and bike to work.  By 40 (in 9 years) we should have the freedom for one of us to leave work if we want, and by 45 we can both probably retire outright.  No matter what we are looking at a lot of flexibility and freedom.  Even though this is a decade away, I don't feel trapped at all anymore.  I feel empowered.

Most importantly my relationship with money has changed in a way I didn't anticipate.  I used to obsess and obsess and obsess about paying off my student loans.  Now that they are done and I've settled into a debt-free life (besides the low-rate mortgage), I just don't think about money the same way anymore.  We save a lot, we give to charity, we spend a little more than we should but on the whole I just see it as a tool.  Our spending is now more aligned with our values, which means I don't bat an eye at spending $300 on a well-made item that I need, but get angsty over $10 plastic crap (which I mostly don't buy at all anymore).

I don't think this site can take credit for ALL of these changes, but it certainly helped me get to this place. Thanks, everyone.

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Re: I love this site
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2015, 11:31:18 AM »
That's awesome!  What a great story, thanks for sharing.  :D

Can't wait to follow along over the next decade as you hit full FI!
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« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2015, 07:42:36 AM »
It is amazing how our lives fall into alignment when we do this - we don't feel deprived, we just have no interest in the consumer sucker stuff.  I have made a few rather expensive purchases over the last few year (categorized as Christmas/birthday gifts to myself) and I am enjoying them immensely.  But a lot of thought went into each item to maximize the pleasure/cost ratio.  Lots of other stuff never even got looked at.  And all those flyers that hit my mail box?  Straight to recycling - what I don't see I don't want.

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« Reply #3 on: November 09, 2015, 07:52:33 AM »
It is amazing how our lives fall into alignment when we do this - we don't feel deprived, we just have no interest in the consumer sucker stuff.  I have made a few rather expensive purchases over the last few year (categorized as Christmas/birthday gifts to myself) and I am enjoying them immensely.  But a lot of thought went into each item to maximize the pleasure/cost ratio.  Lots of other stuff never even got looked at.  And all those flyers that hit my mail box?  Straight to recycling - what I don't see I don't want.

Yes, it is amazing.  My interest in being an unconscious consumer sucker left after I started really paying attention to my spending.  I have been tracking my expenses for at least a year now so I have a pretty good handle on what they are.  I continue to track though because writing it down on a spreadsheet makes me aware of my spending. 

I do spend when it is something of value to me.