Hey Moustachioed folk,
So My dad's an Orthodontist. He's gone from about $300k/year to $150k, so money is tight. Dad's 62 and he's wearing his body down and working 80 hour weeks.
My Step-Mother is about to be laid off, she's a dentist at a group she was working 2 days a week and doesn't want to do dental work anymore. The owner's son just graduated Dental School and is coming in a few months to replace her. She was making ~$30k/year. Twice over the last 8 years she's run up her credit debt to $30k. Dad payed it off both times. Its been run up again.
We've got a garage and several closets full of crap she's bought.
I've got 3 younger sister's (14,16, 23) who my dad is paying for school. My grandmother's Alzheimer's is progressing and its taking its toll on my dad emotionally. Financially, her care is a costly nightmare.
We've got 2 rental properties, a vacation property, my Grandmother's house, a timeshare, 3 cars and a 28 ft boat that's never used. (all paid for so we've, only got fees maintenance and taxes)
Even at these ridiculous income levels my dad say's we've got maybe 3 months wealth if he stopped working.
Dad doesn't think he has time to stop working to clean up the house and my step-mom spends all her time doting on my sisters so they're "always too busy." I have a feeling its just various forms of laziness.
I can't get my step mom to track her spending, she's afraid of computer's and doesn't use pen and paper.
My dad says he doesn't have goals beyond survival and he has no exit strategy for his practice beyond selling when he's become a liability.
I want to help. I have no idea how to change their behaviors. I think they're spinning their wheels trying to save pennies on groceries rather than changing their big spending habits.
How can I motivate them to get off their butts and take stock their financial lives? Step mom has vague issues with privacy online?
How can I get them to clean out the garage and sell some junk to build some capital? Dad had the excuse that its not all his stuff?
-SirSpiffy