Cross-posted from my journal:
Here's something you should consider doing if you like fashion but don't like paying for it: CLOTHING SWAPS!
I do about four swaps a year, bi-annually in two locales. That way we get to do winter/summer, and it gives people about 6 months to go through all their stuff.
How does it work? First, invite all your girlfriends. I use Facebook and create an event, but when I moved to a new city and knew no one, I used meetup.com. Tell your friends that they can bring their girlfriends too!
**Make it a potluck.** Not only does this possibly help you stretch your food budget (because the leftovers are yours!) it really creates a party atmosphere.
I find 1-4pm on the weekend works best. Plan it far in advance - it helps if people have a couple months to prepare.
Put aside all of your own clothes that don't fit, don't look good, or you're just never wearing. Start a small bag in your closet. Go through clothing, shoes, accessories, gently used makeup. Also small housewares etc can be collected. Anything in good condition that you think someone else might like to have. And books! Don't forget books :)
All of the invitees being their gently used items. You can throw it all into one big pile, but I tend to organize by sections: pants, skirts, tshirts, nice tops, long sleeved and sweaters, dresses, jackets, winter wear, shoes, accessories, miscellaneous, books. You get the picture. It helps if the person hosting has a big space (but I've done it in small!) and a mirror. If they're located in a central and easily accessible spot, more people are likely to come.
Then its first come, first served. I've probably been to ten of these, and I've found that people are very good at sharing and no drama. There's a lot of, "Oh, you're looking for cardigans? Try this one!!" and "Hmm if you don't like that one, can I try it after you?"
Nobody goes home empty handed, and we all have slightly cleaner closets. All leftovers get donated to women's shelters, so it's a charity event too!
Clothing swaps are super fun because they cost $0 and it has encouraged me to try on styles I normally wouldn't. DO IT! Don't tell me you don't know enough people - I've had attendees from age 12-45, so think broadly and don't worry so much about sizes. Accessories and shoes fit most people.
Ahhh so fun! I hope I've inspired someone :) Let me know if you have any questions. I just had a super small swap; only three guests, but as you can see I got quite a pile out of it! And it's easier to get rid of stuff from your closet when you know it's going to a good home. Enjoy :)