Grandpa did pretty well for himself. He lived a good long life, spent his money on what he wanted. Unfortunately after grandma died, his body lived longer then his mind, and even that became increasingly frail.
I think we spent ~150-300k a year on care for the last 5 years of his life? He had the money, there was no reason not too. We made him as comfortable as possible, we paid for a nursing home AND an aide that was a blessing who looked just after grandpa. It was not our money (but it was his kids decision of course). So yes we could have done it "cheaper" but that was hardly the point.
I think he died with <600,000 of his fortune left. He had 6 kids so no one got rich, and his kids were all in their 60s and 70s.
I guess what I am saying is much of this wealth transfer is going to be into the health care industry.
Miss ya Bob! You had a good 99 years!