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FlyJ

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« on: September 25, 2019, 10:31:52 AM »
Nevermind.......you can delete this.
« Last Edit: September 25, 2019, 11:15:55 AM by FlyJ »

Louisville

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Re: Parental Conditions on Size/Location for Home Purchase Gift
« Reply #1 on: September 25, 2019, 10:52:47 AM »
You are, I assume, an adult. Proceed with getting the place you want.
If your parents are then willing to kick in, great.
If they're not; Oh well, thanks anyway. Can't wait to have you for dinner at my new place.

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Re: Parental Conditions on Size/Location for Home Purchase Gift
« Reply #2 on: September 25, 2019, 10:55:57 AM »
Is it just resistance or will they refuse to assist you in purchasing a place that they don't like? Can you afford buying a place without their help? If money is coming with strings attached it is not a pure gift, but more like an investment with certain expectations of control [over your life]. Depending on your family that could be just fine and a non-issue. But for some families it can absolutely destroy your relationships.

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Re: Parental Conditions on Size/Location for Home Purchase Gift
« Reply #3 on: September 25, 2019, 10:57:06 AM »
Simple solution ... Do your own thing and buy whatever you want without their involvement.