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@waltworks, I don't think I would be able to house hack since I don't live in the state as my father.
I think you are right - just got to keep reducing spending and save save save. I posted a case study here:
https://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/case-studies/turning-anxiety-into-empowerment/ will probably update it on a 6month basis to try to not be suuuper annoying.
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@PMJL34 thanks so much for your response!
Answers to your q:
1. Blessed enough to be making 106K (68K after tax)
2. End goal would be to have a house my dad could live in that I also think is a good investment either for resale or my own future residence. If it is able to generate an extra cash stream so I can set at aside for unexpected expenses related to my father all the better. I will add that I did genuinely like this property. It has a lot of acreage for where it is at and even though (in dream land) I would offer $180K a lot of the houses in the area are atleast $400K with a lot that are in the millions (but also you kno more like super nice homes or whatever).
3. I would say yes he is able bodied - he has had two relatively big health scares but fortunately being on medicare they didn't break the bank. I sort of expected these health scares given his habits but not sure what may come in the future since surgeries mostly re-set his health.
He does work - lives below the poverty line and shares an apartment with three other men (one who is sort of an alcoholic - kitchen is generally a bit of a mess and one trucker who is mostly absent but smokes in his room when he is in). I would like him to have more of his own space and covid has made that point more salient for me. This is more of an upgrade but it would save him $600 a month which would help because he also has significant debt. This is something I helped him with in the past but then realized I didn't actually have the money to do and can't do again.
I was going to help him with his next apartment since his lease is but in March and that's what got me thinking why don't I just get a place instead of having us both throw away $$$.
4. Yes - he is easy going and I would make sure his section of the house is tucked away.
5. No, No, No
RE: Thoughts section
1. Thanks - I love my parent it's not even a thing I just want to be there like they were there for me.
2. Gotcha I got to get more organized with putting away money
3. Yeah I mean that is a rough back of the napkin estimate I got - won't go too into the weeds but house needs electrical, plumbing, roofing, and then yeah some more basic cosmetic remodeling in the kitchen and bathrooms and potentially adding an extra door for my dad's suite
Definitely not going top of the line with this and would probably would have stayed in the house during renovations for the 6months or so it would be needed to turn things around and do small things like bathroom painting, try to lug as much of the building materials to the site, etc.
But bottom line is I don't have enough cash - I actually have $31k on hand if I count my emergency fund - and raiding 401k is not the best move. Still a useful thought exercise and I really appreciate your feedback!
Thanks again both for taking the time!