We have been homeowners of a small modest home in our small town, SC, for 5 years now. Before buying our house, we had briefly discussed building a house (someday), but some quick research indicated that, at least in our area, even doing a standard "pre-fab" type home on purchased land would cost considerably more than buying a well-equipped already-built (probably-brick) home.
Anyway, we've had an interesting opportunity/idea come up recently in regards to building a house, and it's led me to additional research. So I naturally turn to you mustachians for advice - what things should I consider, or could you help me consider, in regards to the actual cost of building a house? Obviously this kind of thing depends a lot on location and other factors...
Some details (although I'm interested in the discussion as a whole - not just as it relates to our particular situation):
-Some family has offered us a small piece of their land, if we want to build on it. The land would presumably be free - excepting any fees for surveying and re-deeding the property.
-We are not extremely handy people, and while we relish the idea of "hard work" in a number of situations, we both feel it would be detrimental to our marriage/family were we to try to DIY any large parts of the building operation. :-) So while I know that's the most expensive part of home-building, I'm not interested in laying the boards ourselves (but am open to advice like "Here's a really easy thing where you can do the labor yourselves and save a ton of money that requires absolutely no prior experience").
Would love discussion on what kinds of building options are out there - is pre-fab quality OK these days? Specific things to avoid/look for? Etc. Really.. just throw whatever info/opinions you've got at me!