Thanks for all the replies. I am definitely leaning towards pulling back on retirement savings just a tad. The one thing I forgot to add is that I work for city government and they contribute a whopping 24% to retirement, so for me, that's $16k/year (I do not have to match; this is just automatically contributed). I was also doing the full $19.5k to deferred comp and we already did the $12k for Roths this year.
Also, my wife works part time and makes about $45k/year; and I have my own solo practice, and after transitioning that from full time to part time, my income from this is about $4-5k per month.
The goal here is to have three really good sources of income until I'm 40ish -- city job ($66k/year -- decent job, relatively laid back, amazing benefits), solo practice ($50-60k/year -- love the autonomy, and can't beat a side hustle that bills at $200/hour), and the rental business. Then I can drop these off as I see fit. I really like the solo practice and I might turn that office into a three-part office -- headquarters for my solo practice, rental company, and possibly a mediation company.
My brain is complete mush, always looking from one thing to the next. But I like having options, and the rental property is a key component.
Meeting with my rental partner tomorrow morning.