I’ve been dreaming of moving into an expensive tiny apartment in a crowded city, so I can reduce my infrastructure footprint.
Well you could live in Whitter Alaska where everyone, and all the stores, restaurants, and even a bowling alley live in one building ;-).
https://www.npr.org/2015/01/18/378162264/welcome-to-whittier-alaska-a-community-under-one-roof
I always wanted to live in a small apt or condo in a small city like Portland Maine or Burlington Vermont. All the city amenities but highly walkable and close to more open spaces for recreation.
I like the idea of living in a small super walkable city too - just need to escape during the winter. :D
There are a lot around but, at least those on the coastal part of the West Coast, are massively expensive to buy or rent. Plus, sadly, are very over run by drugs now and the problems (homeless, squalor and crime mostly) that occurs with that. But mostly it's the cost. When that 600 SF 2 bedroom bungalow in Monterey or Santa Cruz or Santa Barbara cost close to $2 million it doesn't matter how cute and walkable they are. Plus they all come with their own natural disaster risks too.
Eta just looked up walkable small cities in Calif and Santa Cruz was rated the most walkable in CA and the most expensive housing-wise... in the nation! I personally wouldn't live there now but years ago it was pretty awesome.
Well it is charming ;-): https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/106-Doane-St-Santa-Cruz-CA-95062/16112277_zpid/
Coronado, CA is kinda my dream location, should I win an 8+ figure lottery. (7 figures probably wouldn't do it!). Super walkable. We lived in a temporary apartment there for about 7 months, and the lifestyle was amazing. I could walk to everything I needed on a daily basis. Mostly smaller stores with limited choices, but as long as you are okay with only having a choices of 4 different hoses at the hardware store, instead of 30 at Home Depot, you rarely have to leave the island (which isn't actually an island, but is still called that even though there's a strip of land connecting it to the rest of San Diego.) Plus, I could have my toes in the sand in 7 minutes, if I recall correctly.
Most people who live there own golf carts, which are legal on the streets. That's plenty for getting around to most of the places you need to go. But you can also walk, of course.
Here's <1500 sqft, for $3.675m. Not especially fancy or updated or anything else. This one even has a garage, which is pretty unusual, especially at this "lower" pricepoint. https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/811-10th-St-Coronado-CA-92118/17072495_zpid/
I spent 5 nights there for work about a year ago (I was working nights in downtown San Diego). I loved everything except driving around was a bit stressful with the narrow streets. But I walked for everything except getting to the worksite. Definitely out of my budget. There did seem to quite a bit of cars parked on the streets.
I'm not sure I'd want to live in a place surrounded by millionaires, many of whom were born into money.
The whole mentality of shopping for entertainment, not knowing how your car works and not caring, being influenced by high end marketing to care about and believe weird things about high end products, talking about how much trouble it is to deal with contractors all day and how you're always on the verge of selling your condo in Vail because you didn't even go skiing last year, the subtle shift toward comparison and jealousy, and the two-tier world of homeowners and housekeepers, blah blah blah... just nope.
It strikes me as a fragile way to live, clinging to the liability of expensive real estate on the edge of a faultline, relying on people to perform services for you but those people have to commute a couple of hours from where they can almost afford housing, spending mid-six figures a year to live like all the other "normal" people in your comparison group, and all the money only flows because the tech and venture capital industries have not yet figured out how to expand out of one city.
I mean, I'm no survivalist homesteader, but when I visit places like this I meet lots of very mono-skilled people who are working their butts off to surf the crest of a handful of social constructs that could come and go. And like most people, they can only imagine things continuing as they currently exist forever. If forced to leave, or forced to spend less money, it is unclear how many of these nouveau riche could prosper outside their cultural and geographic bubbles.
I guess I don't want to be like that, and moving into such a place would cause me to merge somewhat into their mentality, even if I tried not to. Maybe we're all in our own little bubbles, but I recognize some value in constantly dealing with a diverse range of people with a diverse range of attitudes, each finding a new way to write the story of their lives. Maybe it's nice to reduce one's range of struggles to commuting, career advancement, and hiring workers to keep your home from falling apart, but once you are on that track it seems like it would be hard to change course.
I think this is one reason why moving back to Orange County CA has been very socially challenging to me. I just can't relate to a lot of the people who are here, even in the local and nearby ChooseFI groups. They are playing the game with larger numbers in all things, and they think "all you need to do is upskill" to match their crazy high incomes.
I grew up in a million dollar home in the burbs. Many of the people i knew from high school now own their own homes in Orange County, or moved to just as expensive Los Angeles or San Diego. Clearly these people picked better education and career paths than I did. Or maybe they have parents who were even more generosity than my generous parents.
My parents bought a 3850 sq ft home in the early 1990s. I have no idea what it cost them back then, but I can see that my parents sold it for 1.1M in 2004. It has since sold for 1.3M in 2015, and 1.5M in 2021. Even a condo in that city has got to be at least $500k today. That's a very suburban family-oriented place that would require commuting to most jobs. And it's still well over a million dollars for a house. There's no way I could afford to live somewhere like that as an adult, but I also definitely don't need that sort of sq ft.
That house was not particularly close to the coast by the way.
I personally have minimal handyman skills, so this is exactly why I prefer to live in a small condo or apartment and the idea of living in a big house sounds much more expensive with all the added maintenance and responsibility. There is some stuff I can figure out by watching YouTube, but most things I am hiring out.
But the other thing about living in more diverse places is that you also tend to have a greater variety and bigger diversity of restaurants whereas the super wealthy places tend to have a lot of chain (and particularly high end chain) restaurants which are not as interesting to me after experiencing so many local spots in the other places that I've lived.
I currently live in a spot with a 93 walk score, but I definitely see more people traveling by car than by foot.
I enjoyed my time in Coronado, but would I want to spend 20+ years living there? I don't know. I suppose you can just take a ferry to endless options and not to mention the greater diversity of people in downtown San Diego.