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Well...sure - I am sure there are a LOT of people more screwed up than I am, considering I have no criminal record to speak of and am a self-made millionaire who can change his own brakes and develop multi-million dollar software. Sorry that was just a poor shitty excuse for me to not do therapy which you saw through.
I just don't have any confidence that therapy will make me a happy person. I'm convinced my problem is...more of a chemical or hormonal or energy problem or something.
Why do I say this?
When I am depressed - it isn't just a sadness. I get intensely depressed, tired, have brain fog, can't sleep, focus or remember things. I can't think or solve problems, I randomly cry and become emotional, I can't focus. Even driving to a store I have to remind myself several times where I am going. I also become bloated, have horrible gas, and develop headaches. I'm not sure if this is something therapy can solve, and no amount of happy thoughts can make me happy when I'm going through one of these episodes.
I don't have any medical training though, and describing my symptoms to my doctor results in him suggesting I have heart burn...? Or he wants to give me SSRIs...which maybe I should try again.
I mean - does repressed childhood trauma really surface decades later as intense physical symptoms along with depression and random crying episodes?
Does childhood trauma cause bloating and abdominal pain and intense headaches?
Does the mind really have this much control over the body?
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Depression and stress both cause inflammation which causes/aggravates all of those issues. Depression, stress and inflammation all interact with each other in ways that compound the issues.
What you've described can also be burnout symptoms.
If your company offers an EAP option, another possible option to start with would be to see someone to help with stress reduction techniques. Those are always good tools to add to your toolbox, so to speak. In the process of those meetings, you'd have the chance to better evaluate potential usefulness of continuing with that person or maybe finding someone else who would be a better fit for therapy.
I have similar reactions to depression & stress, so your descriptions sound very familiar to me.
In my personal case - inflammation and brain fog symptoms were aggravated further by food sensitivity issues of which I was unaware. Given the bloating and cramps you have described, you may want to get tested for allergies/food sensitivity or try an elimination diet or anti-inflammatory diet to see if it helps.