I'm starting to think about this, how my mom will react when I'm FIREd. I'm not retiring especially early, hope to do so at 55, but at that age my folks were hitting full stride. Their business was thriving, they'd just moved into a big custom home, were leading tour groups on international trips, involved in a social/charity organization --in general they were on fire. Me, I'll likely be puttering around the veggie garden, going to the gym, going on bike rides, doing road trips, low-key stuff.
Thing is it's likely my mom will be living with us, so she'll be right there seeing all this. Yeah, she'll be in her late 80s, and I know she'll be feeling some gratitude about being able to live with family, but she's a critical, opinionated gal, and I can imagine what she'll think. I feel a little ashamed of my lack of ambition compared to her and dad.