We all have to pay taxes on tax deferred accounts eventually. Remember that your own income is filling up those lower tax brackets first, so your overall tax rate isn't going to be high when all's said and done. I always look at things that push my own tax rate up as further income. Even if something were 50%, I think "Hey, I got 50% more than I would have had". We actually will have an inheritance from my wife's aunt in the coming year. Both of us might be retiring, so it'll impact us less than it would this year. Plus both our parents are in their mid and upper 80's so it's likely we'll be inheriting more in the not so distant future. And I'm in a state where if the estate is one dollar over $1M, it is fully taxed from dollar one. So the difference between a $999,999 estate and a $1,000,001 estate is $0 in tax or $50k in tax. I know my mom's estate is in the $1.5M range, so tax will be paid. My reaction is "shrug, that's fine".