The folks who FIRED before the recession are the perfect example of what I am looking for. If folks lost 50% of TNW during the recession the curiosity for me is, now 10+ years later do you have more(>20% more), less(<20% less) or about the same(+/- 20% overall) as you did pre-recession.
It seems typical for most people to draw no more than growth/dividends, which leaves you minimally the base amount of equities you retired with. I suppose it's possible to die landing at or near zero, but would be very nerve-racking to attempt it with all the unknowns involved over a long 20-40 or more year period.
Most people I know who FIREd before the recession have a lot more now. That's because most FIREd people I know are at some reasonable ratio of stocks and bonds. Since the depth of the recession, VTI is up about 450% and BND is up about 11%. Most of them withdraw less than the stereotypical 4%.
(A few went back to work around that time. Even fewer bailed near the bottom and never got back in - those are the people who have ended up in the worst situation relatively speaking.)
I have about 80% more than when I FIREd, but I chose a good time to leave (Feb 2016) and good things to be invested in over that timeframe (US stocks). I also have been spending at only about a 1% WR.
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I'm not sure why you want anecdotes when you have data, though. You can run FIREcalc or cFIREsim yourself and get many more data points - and they're objective ones rather than subjective ones.
There haven't been that many long declines in the last ten years, you're right about that. But most people I know who are FIREd have run historical calculators and are familiar with the notion that multi-year retreats and drawdowns have occurred historically and are very likely to happen again. That's why we don't withdraw more than 4% or so in the first place!
Also, most FIREes I know are fairly conservative and like to plan for longer life expectancies, higher expenses, worse returns, etc. Suspenders, belts, and staple gun they might say. So they're frequently more conservative than the 4% rule.
I would add that the conservativeness of a WR% is really quite a bit bigger than one might intuit. For example, 3.5% doesn't seem that much more conservative than 4%, but it results in quite a bit more excess at plan end. 2% and the like are ridiculously bullet proof - I'd say there's probably not any realistic scenario where 2% will work where 3.5% wouldn't - hyperinflation or an asteroid would destroy both.