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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #650 on: August 29, 2018, 08:11:31 AM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?

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« Reply #651 on: August 29, 2018, 09:14:10 AM »
Another few misuses of the literally.

"Sometimes when I catch myself dwelling in the past I literally kick my balls back to reality."

"I love him so much I’m #literally sick without him"

"Voted for the first time ever in person!!! #turnfloridablue #nomoreredtide #LITERALLY"


Please, someone stop this epidemic, FIGURATIVELY speaking. It makes me want to FIGURATIVELY jump off a bridge.

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« Reply #652 on: August 29, 2018, 09:42:43 AM »
"I love him so much I’m #literally sick without him"

I'd give this one a "plausible". It's probably not true but you could be literally sick due to emotions.


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« Reply #653 on: August 29, 2018, 12:30:41 PM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?
After graduating from college, we moved to the Houston area, and "sir" and "ma'am" are still in common use.  A lot of kids are taught by their parents to use those words, and I think it's awesome.  Even after moving northward, I try to use it more often, because I think it shows respect for the person with whom you're speaking.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #654 on: August 29, 2018, 01:03:13 PM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?
After graduating from college, we moved to the Houston area, and "sir" and "ma'am" are still in common use.  A lot of kids are taught by their parents to use those words, and I think it's awesome.  Even after moving northward, I try to use it more often, because I think it shows respect for the person with whom you're speaking.

Wow, that's crazy. Many children in the South are taught to use the word unfailingly as a sign of respect to their elders. I'd be pissed if my children were punished for saying "sir" or "ma'am". When that's how you learn to speak, it's not exactly easy to stop saying "yes ma'am", because it comes out involuntarily. I had to practice for several years once I was in college to stop calling store clerks and waiters/waitresses "sir" and "ma'am", many of whom were younger than me. But the fact that this story is ridiculous is the only reason it's a story at all.

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« Reply #655 on: August 29, 2018, 01:17:51 PM »
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

+1

Folks is also an easy substitute for y'all for southerns trying to soften their accent.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #656 on: August 29, 2018, 01:30:53 PM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?
After graduating from college, we moved to the Houston area, and "sir" and "ma'am" are still in common use.  A lot of kids are taught by their parents to use those words, and I think it's awesome.  Even after moving northward, I try to use it more often, because I think it shows respect for the person with whom you're speaking.

Wow, that's crazy. Many children in the South are taught to use the word unfailingly as a sign of respect to their elders. I'd be pissed if my children were punished for saying "sir" or "ma'am". When that's how you learn to speak, it's not exactly easy to stop saying "yes ma'am", because it comes out involuntarily. I had to practice for several years once I was in college to stop calling store clerks and waiters/waitresses "sir" and "ma'am", many of whom were younger than me. But the fact that this story is ridiculous is the only reason it's a story at all.
"Sir" makes me feel more important than I am (or that I'm being schmoozed by a salespunk), "ma'am" makes GF feel older than she is.  We're in our mid-20s in the midwest.  I grew up here, and she grew up in the southwest.  Just some data points.

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« Reply #657 on: August 29, 2018, 01:34:37 PM »
I've noticed that people act better when I call them "sir" or "ma'am". It's almost like, if they sense respect, they stand a little taller, act a little more confident, etc.

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« Reply #658 on: August 29, 2018, 01:46:07 PM »
And I agree about "folks." I get why it is being used and I don't have a problem with that, I just really don't like the word itself. It doesn't mean to me what it means to most, I guess? It has some other feeling to it that is just not a feeling I like? I don't know, but you're not alone, sui generis.
ah, so glad I'm not alone!  And yes, I have the same feeling you describe.  It's not something that I can exactly articulate, but it's a feeling inside that just feels wrong in some particular way.

After reading a few other responses, it might just have to do with that attempt at aw-shucks-familiarity. For me at least. I really dislike it when people sorry, ahem folks work hard to seem overly familiar and...humble...or casual? It just feels fake when everybody *only* uses folks.  Especially in the third person!
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« Reply #659 on: August 29, 2018, 02:37:37 PM »
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

+1

Folks is also an easy substitute for y'all for southerns trying to soften their accent.

Agreed. I think "folks" is a great word. Eliminates the gender-specification in "you guys" as well.

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« Reply #660 on: August 29, 2018, 02:44:42 PM »
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

+1

Folks is also an easy substitute for y'all for southerns trying to soften their accent.

Agreed. I think "folks" is a great word. Eliminates the gender-specification in "you guys" as well.

The Goonies would have been a whole different movie if Sloth said "Hey Folks"

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« Reply #661 on: August 29, 2018, 03:42:26 PM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?
I saw this article earlier this week and while I think the punishment for a kid that young was far too drastic (I forget, and I'm not reopening the article, but I think the kid was young grade school age?), I do think the issue, or in the very least, issues LIKE this seem/ed to stem from being repeatedly called something you don't want to be called. 
Who knows, that teacher could have been a male, or gender non-conforming. 
 
If I told someone (an adult) my name (which is not Luke) and they called me Luke once, I'd correct them so sweetly and politely it could sweeten a cup of coffee, but if they continued to call me Luke after a few corrections, I'd have to assume it was on purpose and to agitate and disrespect me.
Just my two cents.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #662 on: August 29, 2018, 05:26:14 PM »
Another few misuses of the literally.

"Sometimes when I catch myself dwelling in the past I literally kick my balls back to reality."

"I love him so much I’m #literally sick without him"

"Voted for the first time ever in person!!! #turnfloridablue #nomoreredtide #LITERALLY"


Please, someone stop this epidemic, FIGURATIVELY speaking. It makes me want to FIGURATIVELY jump off a bridge.

It is a verbal crutch.  They want some big sounding word in there to emphasize things.  We should start offering up "utterly" which is the same number of syllables and means what they think they are saying and even ends with that handy -ly thing.  But, the vowel out front is not as smoooove and therefore the idea just won't take.  Too hard to get off the launch pad. 

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« Reply #663 on: August 29, 2018, 05:48:32 PM »
Um, I'm a (Canadian) middle-class white woman over 35, and yes there are 2 t's in important.

"Folks" was more an American than Canadian general usage word  (at least in English Quebec while I was growing up).  I first noticed "folks" replacing "people" with politicians' speeches - I think some wanted to be seen as "just folks" so they used folks instead of people.  Made me think they  were faking it.  But now it is ubiquitous.

And yes I know language changes.  I remember when "gay" meant happy and light-hearted.
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

You people and you folks both sound terrible.  If I am talking to people, "you" works fine.  If I want their attention, "hey, everyone" works well.

I think part of this may be a geography outlook - Canadian versus American English.

« Last Edit: August 29, 2018, 05:51:14 PM by RetiredAt63 »

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« Reply #664 on: August 30, 2018, 09:20:01 AM »
“CIRCLE BACK”....
I swear I’m going to... I don’t know... really lose it if this doesn’t fade in the next few years.
“DISRUPT/DISRUPTION” when referring to companies, etc. “so and so is DISRUPTING the RV industry”..... staaaahhhhp.

Here’s another thing... it’s very particular.  Sometimes people over annunciate all of the letters in ‘Important’, especially the center ‘T’. It seems to mostly be upper class white women over 35... but that’s just a total random observation.  There are at least two people on regular podcasts that I listen to who do it and it ruins the whole episode when I hear them over annunciating that ‘T’...
Uh, hate to say this JanetJ, but I believe the word you want is "enunciate". I think I understand what you mean though. By far the worst abuser of this word is Nancy Grace. Ugh.

You're right, my mistake! *although, side note: I don't know who Nancy Grace is...  NOTICE HOW I DID NOT SAY "MY BAD' BECAUSE I NEARLY VOMIT ANYTIME SOMEONE SAYS THAT. 
Ha, had to add an additional phrase I'm annoyed by.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #665 on: August 31, 2018, 07:46:37 AM »
Is ma'am a word that people wish would go away?   I have always thought it was a polite manner to address someone. 

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/parents-outraged-son-punished-referring-163338274.html

Is sir also a problem?
I saw this article earlier this week and while I think the punishment for a kid that young was far too drastic (I forget, and I'm not reopening the article, but I think the kid was young grade school age?), I do think the issue, or in the very least, issues LIKE this seem/ed to stem from being repeatedly called something you don't want to be called. 
Who knows, that teacher could have been a male, or gender non-conforming. 
 
If I told someone (an adult) my name (which is not Luke) and they called me Luke once, I'd correct them so sweetly and politely it could sweeten a cup of coffee, but if they continued to call me Luke after a few corrections, I'd have to assume it was on purpose and to agitate and disrespect me.
Just my two cents.

If someone in my friend group got annoyed about mistakenly being called Luke, that would be their new name forever. Their old name would cease to exist. We'd be singing Lukas With The Lid Off. We'd get your dad to call you and tell you "Luke, I am your father" (even though that's not the correct line from the film). It would be glorious. 

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« Reply #666 on: September 03, 2018, 09:48:47 AM »
Um, I'm a (Canadian) middle-class white woman over 35, and yes there are 2 t's in important.

"Folks" was more an American than Canadian general usage word  (at least in English Quebec while I was growing up).  I first noticed "folks" replacing "people" with politicians' speeches - I think some wanted to be seen as "just folks" so they used folks instead of people.  Made me think they  were faking it.  But now it is ubiquitous.

And yes I know language changes.  I remember when "gay" meant happy and light-hearted.
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

You people and you folks both sound terrible.  If I am talking to people, "you" works fine.  If I want their attention, "hey, everyone" works well.

I think part of this may be a geography outlook - Canadian versus American English.

I think it is a geographical issue, but I'd put the border a good bit farther south.  Anyone using "folks" in my area (NY) would be immediately tagging themselves as a transplant.

But the "you guys" mentioned in another post is completely gender neutral here.  I'm reminded of how the nuns in my all-girls HS would object whenever they heard "youse guys", but it was the extraneous "S" sound they objected to, not the male connotations when there wasn't a male in sight.  That was 30+ years ago - I no longer hear "youse", thank goodness.

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« Reply #667 on: September 03, 2018, 11:34:30 AM »
Um, I'm a (Canadian) middle-class white woman over 35, and yes there are 2 t's in important.

"Folks" was more an American than Canadian general usage word  (at least in English Quebec while I was growing up).  I first noticed "folks" replacing "people" with politicians' speeches - I think some wanted to be seen as "just folks" so they used folks instead of people.  Made me think they  were faking it.  But now it is ubiquitous.

And yes I know language changes.  I remember when "gay" meant happy and light-hearted.
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

You people and you folks both sound terrible.  If I am talking to people, "you" works fine.  If I want their attention, "hey, everyone" works well.

I think part of this may be a geography outlook - Canadian versus American English.

I think it is a geographical issue, but I'd put the border a good bit farther south.  Anyone using "folks" in my area (NY) would be immediately tagging themselves as a transplant.

But the "you guys" mentioned in another post is completely gender neutral here.  I'm reminded of how the nuns in my all-girls HS would object whenever they heard "youse guys", but it was the extraneous "S" sound they objected to, not the male connotations when there wasn't a male in sight.  That was 30+ years ago - I no longer hear "youse", thank goodness.

I hear "youse" from one local person here.  It was a surprise the first time I heard it.

"Guys" seems to have become partially gender neutral and "gals" has basically disappeared.  If I said "the guys are working on that" it would be though that they were male, but I could easily see someone say "hey guys, let's head out" when everyone being addressed is female.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #668 on: September 03, 2018, 11:44:15 AM »
“CIRCLE BACK”....
I swear I’m going to... I don’t know... really lose it if this doesn’t fade in the next few years.
“DISRUPT/DISRUPTION” when referring to companies, etc. “so and so is DISRUPTING the RV industry”..... staaaahhhhp.

Here’s another thing... it’s very particular.  Sometimes people over annunciate all of the letters in ‘Important’, especially the center ‘T’. It seems to mostly be upper class white women over 35... but that’s just a total random observation.  There are at least two people on regular podcasts that I listen to who do it and it ruins the whole episode when I hear them over annunciating that ‘T’...
Uh, hate to say this JanetJ, but I believe the word you want is "enunciate". I think I understand what you mean though. By far the worst abuser of this word is Nancy Grace. Ugh.

You're right, my mistake! *although, side note: I don't know who Nancy Grace is...  NOTICE HOW I DID NOT SAY "MY BAD' BECAUSE I NEARLY VOMIT ANYTIME SOMEONE SAYS THAT. 
Ha, had to add an additional phrase I'm annoyed by.
Re: Nancy Grace - consider yourself lucky. She's a talking head for some cable news show. In my traveling days, one of my regular hotels had a crappy cable package (read: no HGTV) and she was on whatever network I watched instead. She's still around, so someone may chime in to help. I'd Google her, but I don't want her in my retinas.

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« Reply #669 on: September 03, 2018, 05:47:54 PM »
Um, I'm a (Canadian) middle-class white woman over 35, and yes there are 2 t's in important.

"Folks" was more an American than Canadian general usage word  (at least in English Quebec while I was growing up).  I first noticed "folks" replacing "people" with politicians' speeches - I think some wanted to be seen as "just folks" so they used folks instead of people.  Made me think they  were faking it.  But now it is ubiquitous.

And yes I know language changes.  I remember when "gay" meant happy and light-hearted.
"You people" sounds vaguely accusatory, whereas "you folks" sounds friendler. There's also kind of a degree of distance. Close, closer, closest: people, folks, friends.

Just my two cents, folks.

You people and you folks both sound terrible.  If I am talking to people, "you" works fine.  If I want their attention, "hey, everyone" works well.

I think part of this may be a geography outlook - Canadian versus American English.

I think it is a geographical issue, but I'd put the border a good bit farther south.  Anyone using "folks" in my area (NY) would be immediately tagging themselves as a transplant.

But the "you guys" mentioned in another post is completely gender neutral here.  I'm reminded of how the nuns in my all-girls HS would object whenever they heard "youse guys", but it was the extraneous "S" sound they objected to, not the male connotations when there wasn't a male in sight.  That was 30+ years ago - I no longer hear "youse", thank goodness.

I hear "youse" from one local person here.  It was a surprise the first time I heard it.

"Guys" seems to have become partially gender neutral and "gals" has basically disappeared.  If I said "the guys are working on that" it would be though that they were male, but I could easily see someone say "hey guys, let's head out" when everyone being addressed is female.

I hear "youse" a lot in Australia. It annoys me everytime

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« Reply #670 on: September 03, 2018, 08:17:01 PM »
My mom used to refer to me and my partner as "you people," as in, "what would you people like to eat for dinner?" I thought it was so weird, as though we were a big crowd when there were just the two of us. It took me a while to realize the apt word would have been "both" as in "what would you both like to eat for dinner?" I used to get pretty perplexed and worked up over "you people."

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« Reply #671 on: September 04, 2018, 01:43:46 AM »
Stop saying "pleaded" when you can say "pled". The defendant has not "pleaded guilty" he has "pled guilty". The previous standard is now archaic and should be scrapped. The longer form is wasteful and adds nothing.

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« Reply #672 on: September 04, 2018, 06:13:19 AM »
Stop saying "pleaded" when you can say "pled". The defendant has not "pleaded guilty" he has "pled guilty". The previous standard is now archaic and should be scrapped. The longer form is wasteful and adds nothing.
I have noticed this A LOT in news articles lately.  To the point where I've wondered if something has changed grammatically, for this to be acceptable.

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« Reply #673 on: September 11, 2018, 04:34:36 PM »
My mom used to refer to me and my partner as "you people," as in, "what would you people like to eat for dinner?" I thought it was so weird, as though we were a big crowd when there were just the two of us. It took me a while to realize the apt word would have been "both" as in "what would you both like to eat for dinner?" I used to get pretty perplexed and worked up over "you people."
How do you feel about "y'all"?

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« Reply #674 on: September 11, 2018, 06:31:19 PM »
The mere thought of my mother saying "y'all" is quite amusing. We were from Northern Ontario, where "y'all" is not in common parlance.

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« Reply #675 on: September 11, 2018, 10:28:23 PM »
Stop saying "pleaded" when you can say "pled". The defendant has not "pleaded guilty" he has "pled guilty". The previous standard is now archaic and should be scrapped. The longer form is wasteful and adds nothing.
I have noticed this A LOT in news articles lately.  To the point where I've wondered if something has changed grammatically, for this to be acceptable.
In law school, that's how they teach you to say it.  Well, they didn't ever explicitly point out that "it's pleaded, not pled."  But it was definitely everywhere. Pled was not used.  I simply conformed, never asked.

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« Reply #676 on: September 12, 2018, 06:08:02 AM »
My mom used to refer to me and my partner as "you people," as in, "what would you people like to eat for dinner?" I thought it was so weird, as though we were a big crowd when there were just the two of us. It took me a while to realize the apt word would have been "both" as in "what would you both like to eat for dinner?" I used to get pretty perplexed and worked up over "you people."
How do you feel about "y'all"?

I say "y'all" all the time. It's a succinct, gender-neutral solution to the ubiquitous English problem of the absence of a plural second-person personal pronoun. I don't care if it positions me geographically when I say it. I have no problem with the fact that I'm from the South.

Go an hour north of where I live though, and "y'all" becomes "y'uns". That one drives me apeshit.

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« Reply #677 on: September 12, 2018, 08:23:43 PM »
Stop saying "pleaded" when you can say "pled". The defendant has not "pleaded guilty" he has "pled guilty". The previous standard is now archaic and should be scrapped. The longer form is wasteful and adds nothing.
I have noticed this A LOT in news articles lately.  To the point where I've wondered if something has changed grammatically, for this to be acceptable.
In law school, that's how they teach you to say it.  Well, they didn't ever explicitly point out that "it's pleaded, not pled."  But it was definitely everywhere. Pled was not used.  I simply conformed, never asked.

Haha, in nursing school, it's "dilatated" and "dilatation" not "dilated" and "dilation" .  IRL midwives don't say these the "proper" way, because it sounds weird.

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« Reply #678 on: September 13, 2018, 11:12:29 AM »
My mom used to refer to me and my partner as "you people," as in, "what would you people like to eat for dinner?" I thought it was so weird, as though we were a big crowd when there were just the two of us. It took me a while to realize the apt word would have been "both" as in "what would you both like to eat for dinner?" I used to get pretty perplexed and worked up over "you people."
How do you feel about "y'all"?

I say "y'all" all the time. It's a succinct, gender-neutral solution to the ubiquitous English problem of the absence of a plural second-person personal pronoun. I don't care if it positions me geographically when I say it. I have no problem with the fact that I'm from the South.

Go an hour north of where I live though, and "y'all" becomes "y'uns". That one drives me apeshit.


Love y'all!  Also from the South.  My accent has smoothed out during my years away from home, but y'all will always remain. That and pronouncing short E like short I, as in Kinny Rogers, not Kehhhnny.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #679 on: September 13, 2018, 11:21:12 AM »
My mom used to refer to me and my partner as "you people," as in, "what would you people like to eat for dinner?" I thought it was so weird, as though we were a big crowd when there were just the two of us. It took me a while to realize the apt word would have been "both" as in "what would you both like to eat for dinner?" I used to get pretty perplexed and worked up over "you people."
How do you feel about "y'all"?

I say "y'all" all the time. It's a succinct, gender-neutral solution to the ubiquitous English problem of the absence of a plural second-person personal pronoun. I don't care if it positions me geographically when I say it. I have no problem with the fact that I'm from the South.

Go an hour north of where I live though, and "y'all" becomes "y'uns". That one drives me apeshit.


Love y'all!  Also from the South.  My accent has smoothed out during my years away from home, but y'all will always remain. That and pronouncing short E like short I, as in Kinny Rogers, not Kehhhnny.

Ha! My wife does that. Always tough to tell when she's saying "pen" vs. "pin". I never did pick that one up for some reason, even though it was a common pronunciation where I grew up.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #680 on: September 13, 2018, 06:24:14 PM »
Love y'all!  Also from the South.  My accent has smoothed out during my years away from home, but y'all will always remain. That and pronouncing short E like short I, as in Kinny Rogers, not Kehhhnny.

Some parts of accents really stick! I'm moderately non-rhotic unless in a really formal situation like a job interview.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #681 on: September 13, 2018, 07:15:13 PM »
"Alot"is not a word. "A lot" is two words. Do people not have autocorrect?

"Anyways" may or may not be a word. But why add the s?

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #682 on: September 13, 2018, 07:20:23 PM »
"Alot"is not a word. "A lot" is two words. Do people not have autocorrect?

"Anyways" may or may not be a word. But why add the s?


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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #683 on: September 17, 2018, 01:54:08 PM »
"Alot"is not a word. "A lot" is two words. Do people not have autocorrect?

"Anyways" may or may not be a word. But why add the s?

I prefer including the S. Certainly in casual emails, posts, texts. It just feels better.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #684 on: September 17, 2018, 09:50:58 PM »
I'm tire of "super" unless used with "super duper" "Superman" ""Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" or other preexisting phrase.

Super is out of control! It must be stopped!

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #685 on: September 26, 2018, 10:52:57 AM »
"I'm not racist, but <proceeds to say something borderline/overtly racist>"

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #686 on: September 26, 2018, 03:40:35 PM »
How about "normalcy" instead of normality?

Damn you Harding.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #687 on: September 26, 2018, 07:16:32 PM »
How about "normalcy" instead of normality?

Damn you Harding.
"Normality" only ever makes me think of Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #688 on: September 27, 2018, 09:50:20 AM »
How about "normalcy" instead of normality?

Damn you Harding.

I never even noticed that one. Normalcy definitely sounds better to my ear, but normality doesn't sound too off, either.

I've been hearing the word "trickeration" in place of "trickery" on football broadcasts for the last decade or so. Drives me crazy every time I hear it, but it's basically the new normal at this point.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #689 on: September 29, 2018, 06:55:18 AM »
How about when someone says axed instead of asked?

I axed my kid not to do that. Wow, that must have hurt!

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #690 on: September 30, 2018, 08:32:42 AM »
"Axed" is actually a legitimate pronunciation, apparently. Years ago I listened to an episode of A Way With Words and they did a long piece on the history of it. Apparently it was the dominate pronunciation at times and in certain places hundreds of years ago.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #691 on: September 30, 2018, 06:11:43 PM »
Meanwhile, "literally" is getting worse by the day. I cringe noticeably every time I hear it used improperly.

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« Reply #692 on: September 30, 2018, 06:17:46 PM »
"Axed" is actually a legitimate pronunciation, apparently.

It certainly is if you live in The Bronx/Yonkers.


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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #693 on: September 30, 2018, 07:47:31 PM »
I have a friend who has literally taken to using literally several times per sentence. It is literally driving me bonkers.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #694 on: September 30, 2018, 07:55:03 PM »
I have a friend who has literally taken to using literally several times per sentence. It is literally driving me bonkers.

Wouldn't it figuratively be driving you bonkers though?

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #695 on: October 01, 2018, 12:09:00 AM »
A colleague routinely posts in her blog about the most mundane things that really don't bear reporting. She is quite effusive. An example: "I met with Client in their AMAZING conference room and we had the most AWESOME discussion about their needs. We've come up with an AMAZING solution. Am so grateful and blessed by my AWESOME clients!!"

Just keep it to yourself, hon.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #696 on: October 01, 2018, 04:08:44 AM »
A colleague routinely posts in her blog about the most mundane things that really don't bear reporting. She is quite effusive. An example: "I met with Client in their AMAZING conference room and we had the most AWESOME discussion about their needs. We've come up with an AMAZING solution. Am so grateful and blessed by my AWESOME clients!!"

Just keep it to yourself, hon.

Tell her you didn't ax her for that information.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #697 on: October 01, 2018, 09:13:09 AM »
"Axed" is actually a legitimate pronunciation, apparently. Years ago I listened to an episode of A Way With Words and they did a long piece on the history of it. Apparently it was the dominate pronunciation at times and in certain places hundreds of years ago.
They could also be a Futurama fan. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOz8vYzFiYE (fun fact: in support of that one-line joke in one episode, they continue saying it that way for the entire run of the show)

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #698 on: October 01, 2018, 09:58:18 AM »
"Alot"is not a word. "A lot" is two words. Do people not have autocorrect?

"Anyways" may or may not be a word. But why add the s?



Reminds me of a little over 20 years ago, I was making a sales pitch in a Cal Tech Lab.
Taped to a counter over an expensive scale, was a note,

A lot
Alot of you are leaving this area messy, please clean up after yourself.

 Yep someone crossed out Alot and put A lot.

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Re: Words/phrases I wish would go away
« Reply #699 on: October 01, 2018, 10:15:16 AM »
There's a pronounciation one that has always bothered me:

homogenous


Some people insist in using the pronounciation "homo-genius" rather than ho-mo-gen-us".  This has always bothered me.