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But believe me, I pass for normal now! I'm just careful about what I order in restaurants and prefer to serve myself at home or with friends so I can arrange things properly. Though there was that one time we were at some friends' house and they served peas and sweetcorn mixed together. I did actually refuse it when offered, saying "I do not eat mixed foods". Thankfully they are good friends!
Without trying to diminish your achievements that got you to this point, this still seems (maybe it's all relative because I'm on complete other end of the spectrum) picky to me! Do you mind sharing what some of the previous "food rules" were that you've since overcome?
Ha ha, not at all! I know I'm still a bit of a weirdo, but I am now fine with most eating situations. Most people don't notice unless we eat together often. Weirdly, there are only a few foods that I really hate as foods and won't eat at all (the only ones that spring to mind at the moment are swede and turnip). I've tried liver, oysters, black pudding, octopus balls... I didn't particularly love any of those but I tried them once and would eat them again if I were served them. Most of my "food rules" are related to serving methods.
- It used to be that different foods could not touch each other. There had to be little clear channels between food sections on the plate, like a DIY TV tray dinner. Now they can, unless they're really really different (like pudding and meat, or hot and cold foods). But the sausages nudge the peas? Hey ho, never mind.
- It used to be that I would eat each food type on the plate individually - all the sausage, then all the mash, then all the peas. Now I'll have a bit of sausage, then mash, then peas, then back to mash again... whatever. I don't tend to have more than one kind of food on my fork at once but that's a preference these days, not a RULE, and I definitely load up on mash and peas in a single forkful.
- Stuff like disliking sauces is more of a strong preference than a rule these days. It used to be that the accidental addition of gravy ruined an entire meal and I could barely gag it back. Now I'm just a bit miffed and always refuse a sauce if offered, but if it was on the plate already I would just cope with it (except for pudding drowning in a lake of cream or custard... this is still hard. A little drizzle is OK, though.)
- For a while I would only accept one ingredient in a sandwich. E.g. a cheese sandwich involved two slices of bread, some butter, and some cheese. No lettuce, no tomato, no pickle, nothing. Now I enjoy a well-composed sandwich. I won't eat toasted sandwiches that involve salad, though (hot & cold foods...), unless I can extract all of the salad and leave it on the side.
- When we have stuff like curry with rice or halloumi with couscous, I prefer them to be served side by side rather than the curry on top of the rice (the way my husband likes it), but I'll eat it if they do end up on top of each other. It used to be that I would eat the curry that hadn't touched the rice and the rice that hadn't touched the curry and leave the bits I regarded as having had contact.
- No bits in anything ever. Now I will happily drink orange juice with bits and will cautiously eat other foods with bits such as yoghurt.
So, to summarise, it was basically no touching/mixing of foods and no slimy or lumpy textures. That's why I have to eat eggs with bread, to mitigate the slimy with some crunchy. And it used to be super-intense FOOD RULES and now it's mainly preferences (strong or weak) and a very few remaining ACTUAL RULES.