The older I get, the less stuff I want. And the stuff I want, I like to pick out. So I just assume everyone is like me. ;-)
I told my brother (who has kids who I get gifts for) that they don't need to get me anything this year. I recently moved and told them I realized I hate the clutter. Well, they said they were getting me a gift anyways (they don't want one, but they feel they need to get me one because I get stuff for their kids). I mentioned the clutter again, and they said it wouldn't add to clutter. I think it will be tickets to an event or something along those lines based on a recent conversation. That would be a lot better but not necessary.
I have a close friend that has two kids and I always get a present "from the kids", which makes me feel guilty to buy her kids gifts. I'd rather just limit kid gifts to those in my family, or else the list could get ridiculously long. But since "her kids" (who are too young to buy or choose anything because it's really her) get me something I feel guilted into getting them something. I see them maybe twice a year. So this year I told her not to get me anything. To be honest, most of the stuff she gets me I end up not using. Then that adds more to the guilt. So I mentioned the whole clutter and moving thing to her. She said "her kids" will always get me something. Argh...so I hinted that maybe an edible gift would be nice. I just don't need another blouse I end up not using. It's a waste of resources and her money.
My nieces and nephews are getting to college age and I'm wondering how long to get them gifts for. This year, my brothers sent out a detailed list of what their kids want (mind you 3 of them are in college why are the parents sending the list) and I replied that I am getting them all cash so they can get what they want. Some things on the list were "ugly sweaters" or "funny t-shirts". Somehow I think my interpretation of ugly and funny would be different from theirs and they won't end up liking it anyways if I chose it.
In the past when they were younger, I did activity/experience gifts and took them to places, but since they are out of town at college it just makes it harder.
I would be totally happy if I got no gifts this year. Most of the time it's stuff I don't use and I feel bad that the person buying it wasted their money.