Kind of a random question, but...
I have a dog (Border Collie) and two cats, and currently live in a condo. SO is divorced with 50% custody of two young children (3 and 5), and we're talking about moving in together. The thing is... he's not really an animal person. He basically accepts the cats, but he doesn't like the dog and considers her unhygienic, messy, etc., etc.
I've had my dog five years, and during that time, she's pretty much had free run of my place. She's slept on my bed, lays on the couch, and so on. I've compromised to the extent that she's restricted from the bedroom at night, and she's completely restricted from the bedrooms at SO's apartment. However, if we move in together, then SO would ideally want her to be a backyard dog (which I can't accept), or at most, to be restricted to the floor of the living room and the backyard. I can live with my dog not being in the bedrooms or the kitchen, but would want her to have the run of the rest of the house, ideally.
We're really clashing on this issue, and it's starting to seem like short of rehoming the dog or making her a backyard dog, he's always going to be bothered by her, her fur, and the fact that he finds it really strange to keep something so unhygienic (his words) in the house. It's really upsetting me.
Am I being unreasonable on this issue?