I worked in the game industry for a while and would, in general, not recommend it for computer programmers. Now, for computer artists, there aren’t quite as many options as programmers, in which case, my advice is to go in eyes open.
Much of the base skills would be transferable to online marketing, which is likely to have a different type of pressure, possibly less overall.
Risky to say as a man, but I wouldn’t stress that much over the gender issues. There are toxic workplaces for sure, but the solution is to avoid or leave them. There are many, many more not toxic environments and the odds are exceedingly good that DD can find one.