I started replying less because I didn't want to make this thread about me or my specific view, but I'll risk clarifying the idea that has been misconstrued. And maybe it will help to point to a different example I mentioned earlier in this thread.
During the Vietnam War, the U.S. government consistently lied to the American people. The enemy body counts and capabilities were not truthful. During the Tet holiday, North Vietnamese launched the Tet Offensive where they attacked numerous cities and villages at the same time, and captured a number of them. U.S. troops liberated cities, used heliocopters to rapidly move to other cities, liberating them. As a military offensive, it was a terrible defeat for North Vietnam... and it won them the war. Back in the U.S., Americans were shocked the enemy could take over numerous villages after what they'd been told. Sentiment against the war flooded in, and the U.S. withdrew in defeat. My key point is that U.S. government propaganda was shown to be a lie, and support for the war collapsed.
That is what I was trying to convey in my approach to Russia's invasion of Ukraine. I was not suggesting killing tens of thousands of Russian civilians, nor targetting civilians. During the thread I learned about "legitimate military targets", and so my earlier comments about war crimes were ignorant and incorrect. It is not a war crime, for example, to attack the bridge the connects Russia to Crimea because the bridge has military value to Russia.
A more constructive angle is to ask: what will shock Russian civilians out of believing Russian government propaganda, and turn their sentiment against the war?