Hilary's change in regards to same sax marriage is completely different than Trump's endless attack on women. Her change reflects the change that happened in our society. Whether she actually believes in what she says or not on the subject, she's reflecting the shifting viewpoint of the Democratic Party at large by embracing same sex marriage, and hers is a change from exclusion to inclusion. Did it come too late? Probably. Does it show some inconsistency? No more than any other human being who ages and changes their mind on an issue that doesn't directly impact them.
Trump's comments about Rosie O'Donnell, Miss Universe, all the women he grabbed by the pussy and kissed against their will, his co-workers and contestants on the reality show, and even his own daughter are disgusting and he continued to defend them after being criticized. He is a dangerous man who brags about assaulting women. He tried to incite NRA members to take matters into their own hands regarding this election. How anyone at all, much less the "Christian" right, could even begin to defend this man is an exercise in cognitive dissonance. You can not trust someone to uphold the rights of citizens if he brags about violating the rights of women and assaulting them.
I know there are a lot of people who don't identify as feminist, who think that feminists make up stories to scare-monger others into supporting equal rights, who think if women would just stop whining and work harder they could earn $1 for $1 what men earn. But when a man chosen to run for the highest office in our nation says the things he says about women, how can you deny that we still have a problem with equality? And I'm not even getting into race issues. He's a problem on so many levels. I wouldn't care if he was actually a successful businessman and had enough money to erase the national debt, he would never ever ever get my vote. And not because I'm a woman, and a daughter, and have a mother and sisters. Because I'm a fucking human being and he's vile and dangerous to everyone who isn't just like him.