That did occur to me, but it made the renaming all the more brilliant on the FFS (for fucks'* sake) scale.
*As long as we are being pedantic, how many fucks are we forsaking? Just one or all of them?
My speech pathologist mother trained me to be a grammar Nazi so I can't stop myself from chipping in....
When using the term "for fuck's sake....." we are stating that we are doing something for the sake of "fuck" not that we are "forsaking" any "fucks".
So you can safely keep all your fucks and happily go about doing anything you like for the sake of those very fucks. :-)
I thought it was possessive towards the fucks.
Really the phrase is just a variant of "For God's sake".
In this phrase God is a noun and the apostrophe s transforms God the noun into God the possessive noun. The phrase is the standard possessive case and grammatically is the same as saying "for the sake of God." Eg: For the sake of God, stop whinging" is grammatically the same as "For God's sake, stop whinging".
The problem with "For fuck's sake" is that it doesn't really make any literal sense as "fuck" is a verb and not a noun and therefore can't be made into a possessive noun. At least not in a traditionally grammatically correct way. Eg: "For fuck's sake, stop whinging" grammatically means "for the sake of fuck, stop whinging". We can see from the second version that the phrase doesn't make any sense when stated that way.
However, "fuck" has become a very versatile word in modern language and in this phrase it is being used as a noun rather than a verb. Hence we all know from context what the phrase means but grammatically it makes no sense and hence the confusion.
Are you sure? I seem to remember my HS English teacher using this to highlight the versatility of ‘Fuck’ in the English Language: https://youtu.be/xZkb4TPI-Lo
Seems to me that, in common usage, the word is not exclusively a verb, nor is it intended to be in the sentence above.
Also, interesting philosophical implications that we’ve substituted “God” for “Fuck”.
The video is basically saying what I said in my last paragraph. Fuck is a highly versatile word. However, it is versatile based purely on accepted meaning gained from context and common use.
To use the example from the video, fuck is used as a "noun" in the sentence "I don't give a fuck." The meaning of this sentence is clear, however, the word fuck, while being
used as a noun, is not actually a noun. Even in that sentence it is not, grammatically at least, a noun as "a fuck" is a concept not a thing to be named and given.
To make it clear, try replacing "fuck" with any other concept/idea type word and see if the sentence makes sense. eg: "I don't give a philosophy." or "I don't give a calculus." Here, we are using the words philosophy and calculus as nouns but the sentences don't make sense. This is because they are not nouns and unlike "fuck" there is no common acceptance to
use them as nouns and thus have a basis for shared understanding and communication.
Does it matter? No. The point of language is to communicate meaning and the meaning of the sentence can be easily gleaned by anyone familiar with the idiom. Try using that sentence with someone not familiar with the idiom however, and you might find the communication breaks down and the meaning of the phrase needs to be explained because grammatically it doesn't actually make sense unless one is already familiar with the phrase.