Eating a variety of real food in modest amounts is the dietary standards my parents instilled in me. Simple, easy to understand and effective.
I agree.
Consuming a variety of whole foods, regular activity (esp. resistance training), adequate sleep & recovery, stress management, a support system (family/friends), healthy ego (acceptance of body/mind/emotion; all internal feedback) goes a long way to weight management without the need to count calories or bog oneself in minutia.
For those who are interested in the numbers this is how I prep my clients for weight management:
1) weight x 10-12 (depending on age, body surface, activity level. This gives one a daily relative caloric deficit)
2) a biofeedback journal (record food, eat times, sleep/wake times, bathroom breaks, sleep patterns, energy levels)
3) weight training program for the next 30-90 days (always fluid. Not set in stone. While on a diet, the key is to maintain as much lean tissue as possible and this only works with adequate amount of protein sparing nutrients: carbs/fat (no omissions))
basic body assessment (compostion, vitals, etc).
4) follow-up every 4 weeks
The journey is of utter importance, not the goal. Understanding ones biofeedback and ones relationship with food is also key.
Hunger is inevitable in a caloric deficit state. It isn't about willpower. Its about understanding the hunger cues and forging a strategy to satiate ones hunger without tipping the scales.
It is what to eat or not. It's WHY & HOW one eats.