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http://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/bra-washing-fitting-tips_us_5784e5dde4b0ed2111d77a7a?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046&section=women

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...a bra should be washed after every three wears

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those wears should never be in a row

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Ideally you want to have between seven and 10 that you wear regularly

Well I'm nought from three...

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+1.

There are two that I wear all the time. They get washed every one to two weeks, and worn for days in a row all the time. Technically I own more than 10, but only two or three fit me at any given time.

That said, I'm a sweaty person when I exercise, so I probably *should* buy more and wash them more frequently.

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I have four identical ones that I rotate daily. As for washing... Erm... I want to handwash them only so they last longer, so I'd say maybe once a month!!

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I have two, plus two exercise bras.

I do rotate the two!

I wash when they smell which is every 2+ weeks in winter and much more often in summer.


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I have 3 I wear regularly. I just pick the one that works best with my clothing choice of the day. They get washed whenever I remember to throw them in, I was once a week so sometimes every week and other times a month or longer may pass before I think to add them to the wash.

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Really?  I wash my bras every time I wear them, or at least every other time.  Maybe it's because I sweat a fair bit, and because I wear cheap bras, but I can't imagine wearing one of my bras more than two days in a row.

Logistical question, how do you keep track of how often you wear them if you are rotating them like that system says?  Most of my bras are the exact same type and color, so I would lose track of how many times I wore what. 

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I forgot to add.  I probably own about 8-10 $15 bras.  I am a B cup, and I don't wear underwires.  I am not sure if that makes a difference either. 

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I have 3 I wear regularly. I just pick the one that works best with my clothing choice of the day. They get washed whenever I remember to throw them in, I was once a week so sometimes every week and other times a month or longer may pass before I think to add them to the wash.

This is about what I do with regular bras, alternate a few and wash every other week or so when I think of it.

Ah, lady problems.  I probably wash bras more often in the summer and sports bras get washed after one or two uses...boob sweat is the worst.

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Really?  I wash my bras every time I wear them, or at least every other time.  Maybe it's because I sweat a fair bit, and because I wear cheap bras, but I can't imagine wearing one of my bras more than two days in a row.

Logistical question, how do you keep track of how often you wear them if you are rotating them like that system says?  Most of my bras are the exact same type and color, so I would lose track of how many times I wore what.

My 4 bras are identical, and I store them upright in a drawer. (They have a divided off section, Konmarie-style.) Every time I take a bra off it goes at the back, and every time I put one on it comes from the front. Every time I get round to it, I just take the lot, wash them and put them back.

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I am guilty of bra abuse. I am also zero for three on the listed guidelines at the launch of this thread.

Hahaha re: owning 8-10 bras. My mom's maxim was you only need two bras so you have one to wear while you wash the others!

Right now I have 4 underwire bras, I only have that many because I found a bra I like so I stocked up in case I wouldn't be able to find the same style again.

Cup shape is so important - I am a C cup, but in some cup styles I spill out, while in others I look like a pre-pubescent girl trying on my mom's bra!

Now that I am FIRE - I am bra-free as much as possible.

NOTE: the article says that wearing bras keep your boobs up high - that is a myth. Bras do not keep the girls from sagging. Biggest contributor to sag is breastfeeding (makes sense). Having a bra industry lie in the article puts all other points in a shady light.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2016, 09:17:30 AM »
They want you to wash them more so they fall apart quicker and you but more. 10 bras? Holy crap. I have maybe 3-4 at any given time and a couple of stretchy sports bras. I wash the regular bras about every third wear? And the sports bra every wear.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2016, 10:31:35 AM »
I'm a 34DDD so bras are a big deal for me.  I have 3 of one kind (neutral, black, color) and two others that I rarely wear that I got when I was still trying to figure out my size (those were some uncomfortable years).  I wash the main three about monthly but I wear sports bras to work (yay chemical plants and FRCs) so they only get used on the weekends typically.  Only hand wash because those suckers were expensive and hard to find so they need to last.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #12 on: July 21, 2016, 10:36:03 AM »
I switched to sports bras.  I have 1 regular bra now.  This is so much better.

When I had regular bras, I wore the same one for a work-week, then when the 3 I owned were ready to be washed I washed them together.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #13 on: July 21, 2016, 10:58:46 AM »
I am a 34 G, so my bras are expensive due to being miracles of engineering. ;)

I have 7 regular bras (well-fitting ones: 2 light colored , 2 dark colored; 2 okay fitting: one of each color; 1 stretchy sleep bra). And then I have 2 sports bras. The okay fit ones are left over from before I lost weight and I only wear them around the house as they don't support as well.

I do not wash them every wear. Probably about once a month (unless it was a particularly sweaty day) and it's always hand wash and hang dry to keep them from getting destroyed. I do take my sports bras into the shower with me and rinse them really well if it was a really sweaty workout.

I did know about rotating out bra wear so the elastics/fabric have a chance to recover. Bras typically are shot as far as support within 6 months of constant wear, but with proper rotating and hand washing/drying, they can last much, much longer. This probably isn't as big a deal if they're not having to support as much weight, but it is essential for extending a very expensive bra's usable lifetime.

I would think this stuff is something that most very large breasted women find out about as we end up having to shop in a specialty bra store and get experts to help us find decent bras as opposed to women that can buy their bras anywhere.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #14 on: July 21, 2016, 11:01:05 AM »
I am a 34 G, so my bras are expensive due to being miracles of engineering. ;)

I have 7 regular bras (well-fitting ones: 2 light colored , 2 dark colored; 2 okay fitting: one of each color; 1 stretchy sleep bra). And then I have 2 sports bras. The okay fit ones are left over from before I lost weight and I only wear them around the house as they don't support as well.

I do not wash them every wear. Probably about once a month (unless it was a particularly sweaty day) and it's always hand wash and hang dry to keep them from getting destroyed. I do take my sports bras into the shower with me and rinse them really well if it was a really sweaty workout.

I did know about rotating out bra wear so the elastics/fabric have a chance to recover. Bras typically are shot as far as support within 6 months of constant wear, but with proper rotating and hand washing/drying, they can last much, much longer. This probably isn't as big a deal if they're not having to support as much weight, but it is essential for extending a very expensive bra's usable lifetime.

I would think this stuff is something that most very large breasted women find out about as we end up having to shop in a specialty bra store and get experts to help us find decent bras as opposed to women that can buy their bras anywhere.
Amen!

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #15 on: July 21, 2016, 11:45:42 AM »
I have four I wear regularly, two nude color and two black (yep, I'm boring*). They pretty much only get washed when they up and walk themselves to the washing machine (1-2x/month-ish). I do also have several sports bras that I rotate for working out. Those get washed after every wear 'cause I sweat like crazy when I work out.

*I do have a coupon for half off that's good in a couple of weeks and I'm tempted to buy a grey/white leopard print one that caught my eye...really going wild here. :)

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #16 on: July 21, 2016, 01:38:19 PM »
I recently switched to from bras to undershirts (stretchy tank top camisoles) and I couldn't be happier. Much, much cooler and nothing pinches or digs into my bad shoulder. As some of you have no doubt discerned, I'm blessed by being not terribly blessed. (Or something like that.)

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« Reply #17 on: July 21, 2016, 01:59:30 PM »
I hang my nice ones from a hook in my closet.  I find that hanging them airs them out and they don't get smushed together in the drawer anymore.  Sports bras go in the drawer with athletic clothes.  They all get washed every few wears or if it was sweaty when I took it off.  I machine wash but hang dry.  They last a long while.  Don't remember the last time I bought one.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #18 on: July 21, 2016, 02:38:23 PM »
Apparently I'm on the high side around here with my seven - three for everyday use, two sports bras, and two for wearing with fancy dresses (one with clear straps, one sticky). I keep them in a basket in my closet. The sports bras were a real bugger to find, because I'm a D cup and need a lot of support for ballet. What's with all those zero support "sports bras" that are basically tank tops? What on earth kind of exercise are you going to do in one that wouldn't hurt like hell in you're a larger size? /rant.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #19 on: July 21, 2016, 02:48:37 PM »
I switched to the stretchy bras a while ago and I put them in the wash after each daily use. I have 6 of them.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #20 on: July 21, 2016, 02:53:38 PM »
Apparently I'm on the high side around here with my seven - three for everyday use, two sports bras, and two for wearing with fancy dresses (one with clear straps, one sticky). I keep them in a basket in my closet. The sports bras were a real bugger to find, because I'm a D cup and need a lot of support for ballet. What's with all those zero support "sports bras" that are basically tank tops? What on earth kind of exercise are you going to do in one that wouldn't hurt like hell in you're a larger size? /rant.

I loved those "not actually a bra" sports bras pre-pregnancy.  Like rural, I am either not blessed, or blessed to be not blessed in that department.  However, now I want to duct tape them to my chest.

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« Reply #21 on: July 21, 2016, 03:03:07 PM »
I just read back and I should say that my breasts are large and I can't exercise with the comfortable bras, well apart from walking.

I do also have two sports bras, but shamefully I haven't used them in a while!:D As I recall they are the equivalent of Chinese foot binding.

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« Reply #22 on: July 21, 2016, 04:01:30 PM »
I just read back and I should say that my breasts are large and I can't exercise with the comfortable bras, well apart from walking.

I do also have two sports bras, but shamefully I haven't used them in a while!:D As I recall they are the equivalent of Chinese foot binding.

Some of the large chested folks wear TWO sports bras at the same time to try to contain the girls.

Sadly, many supposed plus size bras are designed for cup size only, not band size (or both cup and band).

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« Reply #23 on: July 21, 2016, 04:04:16 PM »
Apparently I'm on the high side around here with my seven - three for everyday use, two sports bras, and two for wearing with fancy dresses (one with clear straps, one sticky). I keep them in a basket in my closet. The sports bras were a real bugger to find, because I'm a D cup and need a lot of support for ballet. What's with all those zero support "sports bras" that are basically tank tops? What on earth kind of exercise are you going to do in one that wouldn't hurt like hell in you're a larger size? /rant.

I loved those "not actually a bra" sports bras pre-pregnancy.  Like rural, I am either not blessed, or blessed to be not blessed in that department.  However, now I want to duct tape them to my chest.

I definitely feel blessed to be not blessed. Breast reductions are one form of 'cosmetic' surgery I would support 100%. But a smaller bust doesn't mean buying bras is easy. I went shopping with the following criteria: nude or pale pink, moulded cup, not completely plain like a T-shirt bra but not with so much crap on it that you can see it through a T-shirt. It took me SIX MONTHS of active shopping to find a bra that was all three things. That's why I bought four identical ones and will never ever put them through the washing machine.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #24 on: July 21, 2016, 04:04:48 PM »
I just read back and I should say that my breasts are large and I can't exercise with the comfortable bras, well apart from walking.

I do also have two sports bras, but shamefully I haven't used them in a while!:D As I recall they are the equivalent of Chinese foot binding.

Some of the large chested folks wear TWO sports bras at the same time to try to contain the girls.

Sadly, many supposed plus size bras are designed for cup size only, not band size (or both cup and band).

Yep, I think you are correct. There are a few specialist bra shops here in the UK where you can be measured properly, but I've never visited a store like that.

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« Reply #25 on: July 21, 2016, 04:32:23 PM »
You can measure yourself quite well.  This is a good site for more info and demystifying bra sizing, and reddit's r/ABraThatFits is pretty interesting to wander through to find a guide on how to measure and to get some real world examples and suggestions.

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« Reply #26 on: July 21, 2016, 04:37:01 PM »
Slate's Dear Prudence once stepped into a firestorm when she told a guy who was concerned about his girlfriend's hygiene that it is quite normal to wash your bras only occasionally.

I have 2 Genie bras that I alternate and two underwire that I wear less frequently, plus a rarely-worn strapless. I wash the strapless most times I wear it because I don't like to think of it sitting for so long in a slightly dirty state. The others I was when I think of it.

I do usually not wear the same bra two days in a row!

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #27 on: July 21, 2016, 05:18:20 PM »
I may be on the high end of bra ownership here, with around 10 bras. Probably about 4 that I wear regularly, plus a sports bra. And then there's the 'slightly too small' and 'slightly too large' bras that see enough occasional use (thanks to hormones and various other factors, I've got about an 8 lb range, most of which seems to be added and removed in the boob area). I'm also real bad at getting rid of older bras, as they're the most comfortable to wear on 'lie around and do nothing' kinds of days.

I'll usually wash them every 2-3 laundry cycles. Machine wash in a bag, then air dry. I also don't wear the same bra 2 days in a row! I guess for the same logic that you're not supposed to wear the same pair of shoes 2 days in a row.

Regarding sports bras: I am large in the bust area, and highly recommend Panache brand sports bras (expensive, so I keep a keen eye on eBay for that kind of thing).

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #28 on: July 21, 2016, 05:25:21 PM »
Wow, you ladies are grossing me out with your lack of bra washing. Icky! Shouldn't the clothing so close to your armpits be washed MORE often, not less?

I rarely wear mine more than 1 day before washing . . . maybe twice if I travel and end up delayed due to a cancelled flight or if I travel and decide to work out more than I thought I would. And I am not an OCD neat freak, trust me!

I machine wash in cold with my other clothes and hang dry from the clasp side using a pants hanger with clips (one bra per clip to balance the weight.) This means I have a lot of bras, see below.

When ex-Mr. Zamboni was in charge of laundry, I decided I was never ever going to nag him (Laundry was pretty much his only regular household chore and I am not his mommy who needs to remind him to get his shit done.) Instead, it was on me to make sure that HE was always the one who ran out of clean clothes. At the time I only had maybe 4 bras (like many of you, apparently), so the result was that if I was on my last clean bra I just stopped on the way home to buy new bras until I had so many that I could outlast his pants (his clothing item in shortest supply) even if he wore them all 2-3 times.

I would think this stuff is something that most very large breasted women find out about as we end up having to shop in a specialty bra store and get experts to help us find decent bras as opposed to women that can buy their bras anywhere.

Yep! It was actually a combination of Stacy and Clinton on What Not to Wear, Oprah, and MMM -- yes that's right, MMM -- who inspired me to get my bra act together with a recent remeasurement.

Although technically I knew exactly how to measure it myself (Momma Zamboni taught me right), I finally just bit the bullet and went to Nordstrom's to get a correct official measuring: 36G. Yep, that's what I thought, too, and now it is confirmed thanks helpful Nordstrom's bra lady with the funky haircut and bitchin' tattoos, which was not what I envisioned in my head prior to going there, but she sure knew her bras. Victoria's secret can take their 40DD's and shove them where their pink tape measures don't shine.

The best part was that, after measurement, the helpful bra lady brought me like 30 different bra styles in my size to try on while I hung out topless in the fitting room sipping a seltzer water. I bought the two that I liked the best and made notes and took photos on my phone about a couple of others that were okay. One of the ones I bought was . . . $85 . . . gasp! The other one was $42. Sounds like ripoff city until you see how happy my girls look in these contraptions. Totally worth it.

And now, guess what? I can get the exact same new "$85" bras with tags in a variety of colors on ebay for $20-$25. I just check in periodically and more seem to pop up at this price regularly over the past year and a half as the manufacturer cycles through fashion colors (although most of the ones I have bought are black or nude; not sure how the ebayers end up with those colors.) Does Nordstrom's cull their inventory regularly and the excess ends up with the ebay retailers? Now I am up to something like 10 of my favorite expensive lacy style in 5 different colors, 2 plain jane white underwires, and 5 highly supportive jog bras. I did get burned on one that was advertised as new but clearly was not: shame on that seller! But, the rest have definitely been brand new.

I agree: what the heck is up with the "light support" jog bras. That is an oxymoron.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #29 on: July 21, 2016, 05:35:24 PM »
Wow, you ladies are grossing me out with your lack of bra washing. Icky! Shouldn't the clothing so close to your armpits be washed MORE often, not less?

Lol!  I was reading through and thinking "TIL women are grosser than I thought!"  Just kidding... sorta.

As a guy I find this pretty surprising.  I just assumed it gets washed after one use like other underwear.  The only thing I wear for more than one day before it gets washed is a shirt I use for sleep (after taking a shower). 

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« Reply #30 on: July 21, 2016, 06:03:10 PM »
I think that if bras were as cheap as other underwear, and if it was as easy to find a good fit as with other underwear, I would probably be fine washing them more than I do. But, when $25 a bra is cheap for me, and finding the right fit such a pain at times, it complicates things. Also, if it's a hot & sweaty day, and/or I've been very active, that bra is probably not seeing another wear. It's more the 'I wore this while being mostly sedentary' bras that get worn again.

Maybe it's good to think of them less as underwear, and more as hats for boobs (haha work with me here). When you wear a hat, your head sweats, but you're probably not washing that hat after every use. So, the same with bras.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #31 on: July 21, 2016, 06:14:27 PM »
Wow, you ladies are grossing me out with your lack of bra washing. Icky! Shouldn't the clothing so close to your armpits be washed MORE often, not less?

Lol!  I was reading through and thinking "TIL women are grosser than I thought!"  Just kidding... sorta.

As a guy I find this pretty surprising.  I just assumed it gets washed after one use like other underwear.  The only thing I wear for more than one day before it gets washed is a shirt I use for sleep (after taking a shower).

I have confirmed with my female friends, washing after every wear (even in germ-crazy USA) is not standard.  Someone mentioned the Dear Prudence post above: http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2009/08/dirty_pretty_things.html

Sports bras get washed immediately, of course, but bras are expensive and delicate and don't get sweat on from the inside or exposed to outside dirt in the normal course.  The tiny wires and hooks and lace and elastic are a disaster.  I sometimes suspect companies make them so fragile so we're constantly buying more of them...

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #32 on: July 21, 2016, 06:18:37 PM »

Maybe it's good to think of them less as underwear, and more as hats for boobs (haha work with me here). When you wear a hat, your head sweats, but you're probably not washing that hat after every use. So, the same with bras.


So totally stealing "hats for boobs."


Though I guess with my undershirt conversion, I'm going more for the hippie bandana look. :-)

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #33 on: July 21, 2016, 06:44:13 PM »
I have 4 good-fitting underwire bras (two nude, one black, polka dots, one teal), 2 cotton "sports bras" bought during pregnancy when I could no longer sleep without a bra, 2 similar cotton nursing bras bought a few months later, and two serious-support sports bras.

I wash the real bras about every 2-3 weeks depending on sweatiness, and the sleep/sports bras every 2-3 wears or when they feel gross. I don't usually get a lot of boob sweat, though.

+1 to the hats for boobs comparison.

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« Reply #34 on: July 22, 2016, 04:28:53 AM »
I wear them only once or twice before throwing them in the laundry.  Usually when I take my bra off at night, I hang it on the doorknob.  Then if I need to do something outside the next morning (bringing the dog out, going to the corner store) before my shower/dress routine, I'll throw on yesterday's bra, then after my regular routine put on a fresh one.  Sometimes I'll go a day without a shower in which case I will wear the same one from the day before (don't want to 'contaminate' a new one, weird, huh?).

I have about 7 - 8 that I regularly wear, all the same style with plenty of coverage.  Then I have a few lower cut underwires that I only wear if needed because of a particularly low cut top (because they hurt!).  I machine wash and hang dry.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #35 on: July 22, 2016, 04:57:49 AM »
I had a reduction over 10 years ago; at the time I was a 36G; now I am somehow a 34F - I think they expanded a bit.  Should have taken more off probably, but still, bras are easier to find now.  I have around a dozen sports bras (I no longer bother with regular bras) with varying degrees of support - there are 4 that I rotate for everyday use (panache - love these) which get washed every few days, and the rest that are more heavy-duty (moving comfort) get washed every time I exercise.  All are washed in delicates bags and air dried.  I do laundry every 2 weeks, so I never want to go to my closet and not have a bra when I want to go for a run.  I used to have to double bag it (2 sports bras) before the reduction.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #36 on: July 22, 2016, 05:18:03 AM »
I am a 28F and there are literally ZERO bras on the market that work with my cup shape. Granted, I only have three brands to choose from (thank you VS and misinformation about band/cup size)....

Point being, I have two bras - one black, one nude - that I rotate and wash when they are actually dirty, same way I know when to wash my jeans. Sports bras are gross after one wear because boob sweat, so I have three of those. One just died and it makes me sad because now I have to hope that the manufacturer hasnt changed it in the past six years.

One of these days someone will make a non underwire camisole bra with enough room for the girls and thick enough coverings so you can't tell I'm always cold.  They would sell out in a heartbeat.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #37 on: July 22, 2016, 05:29:34 AM »
I have a lot of bras.  I probably have about 8 or 9 sports bras.  2 that are really supportive for my long runs, the rest for my shorter daily runs.  I wash these every time I do laundry and never wear them twice.

For regular people bras I'll wear them 2-3 times between washing, but I mostly hang around naked and braless all day and only wear them to work (part time) or when outside of my apartment.  The first thing I do when I get home is basically get naked =P  Or I just put on a huge tshirt with nothing else on because I don't like the feeling of clothing on my skin.  I've always been like this (I'd regularly just strip down as a child until I hit like 8 or 9 years old when I realized that socially it wasn't okay). 

I have maybe 5 regular bras that fit me, but I tend to wear the same two over and over again because they are the most comfortable.  Right now I'm a 34D (or DD during PMS) because I'm a bit fat.  Normally I'm a 32C/D but I went off the pill and my boobs grew and I gained some weight.  Blerg.  I'm still shimmying into the same sports bras (which are super tight) but I bit the bullet and bought a few 34D bras from amazon when they were on sale.

I'm really lazy and just toss my bras in a garment bag and put them in with the regular wash.  I air dry them though.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #38 on: July 22, 2016, 07:43:12 AM »
So, some might accuse me of spousal abuse for this, but it was in the name of SCIENCE!

Last night I asked my husband to give one of my bras the "sniff test". He said he couldn't smell anything. I specifically asked if it smelled better or worse than one of his undershirts after a day of wear, and he said better.

That bra had been worn for 5 straight days, including 90+ temps, crazy humidity and 100+ heat indices. Most of my time was spent in an office, but I also did two one-mile walks in the heat wearing it, along with various other shorter times outside.

Bras don't get smelly as quick as other clothing. QED.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #39 on: July 22, 2016, 08:26:27 AM »
So, some might accuse me of spousal abuse for this, but it was in the name of SCIENCE!

Last night I asked my husband to give one of my bras the "sniff test". He said he couldn't smell anything. I specifically asked if it smelled better or worse than one of his undershirts after a day of wear, and he said better.

That bra had been worn for 5 straight days, including 90+ temps, crazy humidity and 100+ heat indices. Most of my time was spent in an office, but I also did two one-mile walks in the heat wearing it, along with various other shorter times outside.

Bras don't get smelly as quick as other clothing. QED.


Also my experience- I've never noticed one of my bras smelling.  My t-shirt must get all the underarm sweat and save the bra.  I'd never wear a shirt twice without washing!


Oh if anyone is near Hamilton, Ontario, and slightly crafty- there is an amazing place there that does bra-making classes (also available on Craftsy).  Bra's aren't super cheap to make, but you can engineer it exactly right for your body, so it's a HIGH end bra, not a cheap ass one.    I've done her online class, but eventually plan to make a  vacation of it to learn to do strapless bras.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #40 on: July 22, 2016, 09:01:59 AM »
Bras don't get smelly as quick as other clothing. QED.

I have done similar experimentation.  We found that my bras never stink after multiple wearings, even on sweaty days.  I always air them out for a day before putting them back in the drawer in order, KonMari style.  Dead skin does rub off on them, but that doesn't gross me out -- it's on everything in my house!

Real truth: I wear sports bras more than once before washing.  As long as I air them out, they don't stink after one or two runs (even if noticeable boob sweat soaks through).  The reason your sweat stinks is because of the micro-organisms flourishing in it.  I'm more likely to re-wear a sports bra than running shorts because my butt sweat is more gross than my cleavage sweat.  My armpit sweat doesn't seem to reach my bra at all.

I have biggish boob to rib cage ratio and switched to a more intense sports bra than the cotton/elastic ones.  Worth every penny and feel very high quality construction: http://www.natori.com/Bras/Sport/Natori-Power-Yogi-Bra 
I like their T-shirt bras too, often on sale at Nordstrom rack for ~$25 if you can find them.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #41 on: July 22, 2016, 12:08:59 PM »

Oh if anyone is near Hamilton, Ontario, and slightly crafty- there is an amazing place there that does bra-making classes (also available on Craftsy).  Bra's aren't super cheap to make, but you can engineer it exactly right for your body, so it's a HIGH end bra, not a cheap ass one.    I've done her online class, but eventually plan to make a  vacation of it to learn to do strapless bras.
My favourite (and not expensive) bra is hard to find, and because it is a cheap brand sometimes I can get 2 bras in the same size that are not really the same size. Can we do a Lady Mustache bra-making class retreat in Hamilton?

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #42 on: July 22, 2016, 03:04:55 PM »
So if bras don't stop sagging and are such a pain (and expensive) what purpose do they serve?  Sounds like we need to get rid of them!  :D

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #43 on: July 22, 2016, 05:02:21 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #44 on: July 22, 2016, 07:05:18 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

And hide any unintentional high beams ....

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #45 on: July 22, 2016, 07:15:00 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

And hide any unintentional high beams ....
Exactly - just couldn't think of a good way to say it  ;-)

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #46 on: July 22, 2016, 07:23:30 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

And hide any unintentional high beams ....
Exactly - just couldn't think of a good way to say it  ;-)

"Unintentional" probably isn't relevant - they are all unintentional for me....

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #47 on: July 22, 2016, 09:24:16 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

And hide any unintentional high beams ....

Hell, hide the intentional ones too. ;)

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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #48 on: July 22, 2016, 09:27:05 PM »
Well I may sag but when I am wearing my bra I don't sag - so the visible effects are temporary but tangible. Just like wearing makeup.  Plus in cold weather it is one more layer to keep the girls warm.

And hide any unintentional high beams ....

Hell, hide the intentional ones too. ;)

There are fake erect nipples you can buy and apply. My god - what if your own decide to stand at attention too!?
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Re: Step into the bra confessional, ladies (and busty blokes, why not?)
« Reply #49 on: July 22, 2016, 09:41:33 PM »
Those with pregnancy experience, when did you buy new bras?


I'm only 8 weeks but already my boobs are starting to bulge out the top of my bras.

I seem to have been spared sensitive breasts so it isn't particularly uncomfortable at all, just a bit rediculous looking.

Any point in buying a larger size now or am I just going to grow out of them too quickly?

I wish I could just go sans bra but I work in an over air conditioned environment....