Just to be clear...
Yep, that's how it came across. Just generally, you aren't going to be able to use a word like that in a public setting without doing more harm than good.
Again, though, I think this whole "judging" thing is cultural. MMM, on the main blog, liberally uses---and encourages others to use---words you can't say on TV. I'm pretty sure you can say "fatty" on TV, but you can't say "fuck". But if my post had used the latter instead, nobody here would blink an eye. In my mind, I
judge "fatty" and "fuck" to be two sides of the same coin. Let me put it this way: they are both words I don't want my young children to hear or say. Again, it's culture/context: if I went onto a "skinny elite" forum, I'd probably find every other post contained the word "fatty". But on this forum, I
know the community takes the use of cuss words lightly, so I assumed the same would hold for the use of a word like "fatty" (which, again, I intended for effect, not to shame the overweight).
How about this: what if I say, "We shouldn't judge people by their religion". On
this forum, I'd expect almost complete agreement. But what if I said that on a Nazi forum? What do you think the world population at large thinks about that statement?
Again, that's why I think the whole judgment thing is cultural. There's still plenty of places in the world where religious intolerance is the norm. What if WW2 had a different outcome? What would everybody thing about religious choice under those circumstances?
The point is, these things simply aren't absolutes: religion or fatties or nazis or racists or motherfuckers or lazies. They all have "soft" definitions that are deeply rooted in cultural norms. So whether or not you judge these things---i.e. where you draw the line---isn't that just a matter of your character (and from that, the culture to which you belong)?
If you have socialized (any group health insurance) medicine, laziness hurts other people who pay into it.
Nope, not buying that as a reason to judge other people; only a reason to promote exercise as a healthy lifestyle choice (which at least, the UK's government and health service do). It still hurts themselves more than anyone else. Also, I'm not sure that it's even true.
I wasn't presenting a rationale to judge others. In fact I was trying to cast doubt on the idea that judgment is sometimes acceptable. Someone else was trying to justify the idea that, "It's OK to judge if you're judging a behavior that harms other people, and laziness only harms lazy people, so therefore it's OK to judge them as lazy." I was trying to say, no, laziness
can harm others. And, more generally, I was trying to say that it's not so easy to draw a line for what constitutes "harming others". To what degree? And what about in the case of ignorance?
Society is more likely to reap the benefits of widespread exercise if it's promoted in a non-judgemental way.
Are you sure about that? So you're judging encouragement to be a better motivator than shame? To be fair, I probably agree with you... but I also think some people are more motivated by the carrot and others more so by the stick.
How about another example more relevant to this blog. Do you (the royal you, not any you in particular) judge me (and how so) if I drive my Hummer 5 blocks to the store to pick up a gallon of milk, when I could have just as easily walked or rode my bike (on a nice, warm sunny day, in the world's safest neighborhood)? You could say, well, I'm encouraging the destruction of natural resources, increasing air (and noise) pollution, so I'm hurting others more than I'm hurting myself... but am I? What if I'm just ignorant, what I've never read MMM or don't understand the side-effects of unnecessarily driving a gas-guzzler? And in fact, since it's only 5 blocks, the damage to everyone else is real, yet infinitesimally small. But the (financial) damage to me is easily calculated. So, it's basically just like laziness on my part, right? In that I'm hurting myself more than I'm hurting others. But isn't this contrived version of myself the "MMM anti-hero", the one constantly being judged? How is MMM judging people who drive unnecessarily to be
clowns any different than judging lazy people to be
fatties?