I guess I have to say I don't necessarily believe there is "1" person for you in all the universe, but we def had something from the first time we saw each other. First time he ran into me he mistook me for my sister (twin) whom he went to school with. We ended up talking on the subway, and when he was getting off, trying to talk to me when the doors were closing. Even though I was on my way to another date, I thought regardless what happens with this date, it was a good day because I got to talk to him. He also thought it was signficant, and told his roommates about it and wrote it in his journal. We ran into each other a couple other times, but either I was hanging out with someone or he was with someone and we would joke about it (This is my fling, who is your fling?) Then about a year later I see him at this bar playing pool. I was thinking, ah I shouldn't go up to him, he will think I am lame/desperate. I decided I didn't care and he was happy to see me. I am talking with him and walking, and I see a friend so I start walking towards the stage area to where my friend is, and the next thing I know he grabs me by my belt, pulls me to him and we dance for a number of songs. Our dates were silly, like him showing up with a 40 ouncer and driving me to his favorite underpass or train trestle, making me dinner, trying out various diners to find the one that made the best milkshake and fries. What impressed me, was even though he didn't have much money he would use his last dollar to feed and care for his dog, was always there for his friends, had a lot of common sense (especially for a guy in his 20's) but not a lot of ego. Not that our life or our relationship is perfect, but as he says, "no regrets".