That being said, it's often done on this board, and it definitely keeps me from commenting and providing a more conservative perspective on issues, because I know it will go beyond the issue being debated into assertions of why I have certain opinions and some overarching assumed goal I'm supposedly trying to achieve or whatever. It makes a good echo chamber if that's the goal, but if you're trying for dialogue with the hope of encouraging others to consider and be swayed by your opinion, it is an impediment to achieving that.
Given the makeup of our forum, most of the women here will probably tend to the more liberal side of politics, because we are generally well-educated and that is where well-educated women tend to end up.
Most of the non-US commenters will seem quite far to the left to Americans, because our politics just generally are more to the left. You know, universal health care, good maternity leave, low cost higher education, stricter gun legislation, that sort of thing. So if you want us to listen to the viewpoint of a conservative American, we will certainly listen, but we will most likely not agree. Your right seems just too far right to us.
As an older Canadian who has voted Progressive Conservative, Liberal, New Democratic Party and Green over the course of many federal elections, you can see that I am not wedded to one political party. Presently I would happily vote for a fiscally conservative, socially liberal party. Unfortunately the Conservative Party of Canada has fiscal policies I can't agree with and is socially very conservative.
I'm assuming you are in the US? Because conservative USA is very conservative. So when you are bringing up conservative topics, your main audience for actually changing views is likely to be your fellow Americans. Given the horrible behaviour of the Republicans these days (yes sedition is relevant here, as is Roe versus Wade and the women who will die because of it) you will need to be particularly persuasive. And for those of us not in the US, the best you can do is help us understand where you are coming from, but you are not likely to change our views.
Sorry about that (obligatory Canadian comment).
I should have clarified liberal from a US perspective. That was what I was meaning.
Responding to your post and Metalcat's post together on this one.
First, I enjoy a good lively debate on things. I've enjoyed either participating or just watching debates on here about numerous issues including ones that were mentioned about universal healthcare, higher education funding, etc. I mean some of the very first threads I commented on MMM before the 100 post off topic rule were on gun control, and I have refined and modified my viewpoint and perspectives a decent amount because of the discussions on these topics. So I don't mind a lively debate at all.
I'll also note that I haven't thought about things from the perspective of getting harassed from the conservative side of things on the board. I'll have to make sure I never fall into that category.
I also don't expect to change minds, especially on the issues you mentioned. Maybe plant some seeds like others have with their perspectives they've provided, but I'm not expecting people to agree with me.
The difference I'm talking about that I see a lot for certain issues, such as abortion as you mentioned, is not lively debate or firm difference of opinion and disagreement. It's assumptions of motivations. It's not just, I'm right because of points a, b, and c, or do you realize that these are consequences of your opinions or whatever. It's "oh, you think this..... You must think this because you really want this other thing to happen or hate these people or something like that."
I've gotten this vibe either indirectly or directly expressed many times, and it's a sure fire way to shut down dialogue more so than even name calling, to me. If you (general you not specifically R63) already know not just what you think but what I think and why i think it, too, what's the point of even talking?