We got sick of mowing, and so I suggested we try clover instead. It's taking over nicely and choking out the grass. Looks lush and green but doesn't get too tall. We just scattered lots of clover seed before rainfalls. Theoretically it should flower and attract bees but it hasn't yet.
Clover will go for a while after planting, but grass will eventually fill in and choke it out. Clover produces nitrogen which grass craves, so it's a natural deal. You can keep the grass controlled by spraying clethium (spelling?) which selectively kills the grass but not the broadleafs (clover).
Everyone has big lawns around here, unless you're in a metro area. We live outdoors in the summer and enjoy our yards.
Ours is about 1.5 acres, spent about 5 hours on it last weekend, mowing, weed eating, spraying weeds, blowing things clean, etc. I don't really consider that "work", pretty much enjoy it.
You do have to own and maintain good equipment and tools to care for things, which aren't cheap. Nothing more miserable than fighting a junk lawn mower that is constantly giving you troubles.