No food at all is slightly odd. Nothing else seems odd. We were dirt poor when we got married. We had about 30 guests, but it was a small, daytime wedding at a lovely country venue. There was no band, just background music recorded on a tapes. No dancing. Everyone just hung out and chatted and caught up after the short ceremony. Our cake was made by relative (it was stupendous), I had a flowered headpiece and bouquets that another friend made. We paid for 3 flower arrangements. We served a simple cold buffet and cake. I don't think we had alcohol either (maybe a pay bar?) because it was midday, but I assume we had soft drinks, juice, water with the buffet. We did have free champagne for the toast. And we both love booze, so it wasn't in deference to venue or guests or our own tastes...it was because we were broke.
I imagine that some people arrived expecting a mid day party, or a big shindig (given that my parents had been well known in my childhood town), but they got something A LOT more suited to our personalities. So much so, that DH and I got distracted during our vows trying to identify a raptor that cruised overhead (it was an osprey) and the loud bird call nearby (it was a pileated woodpecker).
Good times! I've pretty much always enjoyed the small simple weddings I've attended a lot more than the big ones. Although, if we could have afforded a dj/music, that's what I would have wanted to splurge on. Dancing is fun.