Now how would your life be different if you were born like this?
Almost nothing would have changed. My wife is my partner and best friend, and would be regardless of the sexual attraction.
Would you have the same job?
Of course. I didn't take my job due to sexual attraction.
Would you think of your job and life purpose differently.
No. My life purpose doesn't revolve around sexuality/lust/whatever.
How would you spent your time?
I never did much chasing of the opposite sex, so not much change here.
Would your desire to Fire be greater?
No. Might be less, as one big aspect of wanting to FIRE quick is more time with my partner (though if we're assuming same partner, that would be the same with/without the sexuality, just due to enjoying being with her), but especially wanting time raising kids. Even if no sexual attraction, wanting to raise kids for it's own sake seems plausible, so IDK how you feel about that, but without that, drive for FIRE might be less. With it, again, no change.
Would you have a desire to have a fancy car or house? What about where you would live?
No. No change.
Would your religion, if any, change?
No.
I don't see why pretty much anything would change.
I don't live my life following sexual whims and constantly making decisions (cars? religion? job? housing?) based on sexual desires.
If I were in that situation, I would work on forming a friendship with my partner--not one based on sexual desire, but on friendship and love.
This paragraph made me sad:
Lets say you are married and make just enough money to pay the bills and make it through another day but with very little to save making retirement by 65 very difficult if even possible at all. Its all worth it though because you come home to a happy partner that is thrilled to be with you and you have "good times" every night. Modify that thought now, you now have absolutely no sexual desires towards your partner or anybody, infact the thought of sex makes you feel sick like you are performing an open heart surgery on someone yet your partner expects you to do this every night. Your partner now means nothing to you, they are just a person living in your home like a flatmate that expects you to spend your precious time doing things with them that they enjoy but you don't. They expect gifts from you and massages and doing these things are a chore for you. You don't get any pleasure from their happiness when you complete their tasks and you dislike their company that sucks up your time and money that you worked hard for. Lets say feelings of friendship towards others existed but very shallowly. For example you may want to be friends with a person who shares a common interest with you such as food and virtual reality (very uncreative I know...)
Sex--for someone interested in it--is great, but it's only one aspect of a great marriage.
I'd rather have a perfect marriage in every other respect, but no sex, than no real relationship at all, but lots of sex with strangers.
In other words, the
relationship is the more important part, not the sex.
I'd focus on finding that awesome relationship.