Sorry dad.
I spend 9 hours a week in a car commuting. I know you don't understand that. That's okay.
You spend that time voluntarily. Nobody is making you do it.
And don't confuse my kids with my wife. You must not have one because you don't just say no..we can totally afford it, it makes you happy, but you are not getting it because I don't want to work in a few years. You know what would happen if I did that? Obviously NOT
I have a wife. We're both on the same page financially. If you're not, maybe it would be a good idea to have some frank discussions. Avoiding that conversation leads to the kind of fear that you have indicated rules your life.
I would end up with two jobs and probably child support. If you don't think there is diversity in the MMM crowd you're wrong.
If you're married to a person who is so terrible that she would divorce you because you want to spend less, divorce is probably the best path for you to take long term. That said, there is hope - maybe discussing finances and future goals with her will not result in immediate divorce?
We all don't save 50%
That's true, some of us are much higher. We get to the higher savings rates by not wasting money on silly things and then justifying our bad purchase decisions.
Besides saving comes first but I have the money. I am not going for fire. I like FI+
That's completely valid. If you don't want to retire early - cool. Bitching about how the entertainment program that you pay premium money for as a cable extra isn't providing you with unbiased news is a silly waste of everyone's time on this forum though.
Honestly, I don't know why you are on this board if you are saving 50% and have no expenses for likes. Likes are subjective. We like media. That's not exactly smoking or booze
Again, if you like media and want to spend your money there that's fine. If you want news though, pay for actual news. Don't pay for entertainment and be shocked that it's not particularly factual.