Renbutler, after reading a lot of your posts you sound more of a fiscal conservative / social libertarian to me. The social conservatives I know are more than happy to get government involved in things they support, such as state constitutional amendments banning gay marriage, getting abortion outlawed, the supposed War on Christmas each year (don't get me started on that one), keeping marijuana illegal, etc. Frankly, you sound a lot more like a Ron Paul supporter than a Michelle Bachmann supporter on social issues. Am I wrong?
Well, let me address each of those topics.
Gay marriage. Government should stay out of marriage PERIOD. Straight or gay. I suppose in that regard I am
libertarian. My personal views on homosexuality are similar to the Catholic Church's: hate the sin, love the sinner. We have gay friends who consider themselves married (not legally, though). I have no problem with that. If it's a problem as the church says, then God will deal with it. I will still consider them friends, as all my friends sin in one way or another -- as do I. Bottom line though: none of it is the government's business. I certainly don't care that government endorses my marriage. That's meaningless to me.
Abortion. I don't consider this a sex issue. Some like to absurdly accuse pro-lifers of "wanting to control a woman's body." Perhaps there are a few depraved idiots who approach it that way. But for me, and virtually every pro-lifer I know, the issue is about protecting the life of an innocent child. I know that some don't consider a fetus "life." Both sides are well armed with contradictory scientific evidence. I'm not hear to rehash that old debate. I just believe that innocent life should be protected (and I give money to groups who ensure that those "unwanted" children will be taken care of and given a life of dignity). But if the mother's life is in danger, I don't believe her life should be traded for the child's. In this regard, I'm
conservative.
War on Christmas. This is such a small issue, IMO, even in conservative circles. I have no problem with companies doing what's best for business by being all-inclusive. I do think it's absurd, however, to try to ban secular images like Christmas trees from public grounds. Some people have no concept of what the first amendment really says. In this regard, I lean
conservative, but it's not really a major deal to me.
Marijuana. My view on this is changing a bit. I really think using marijuana is STUPID. There's no redeeming quality to it, and it robs people of energy and ambition. I see it a lot like alcohol: the only reason to use it is if you don't really like yourself when you're not full of mind-altering chemicals. HOWEVER, is there any specific reason to outlaw it? I don't know. On this issue, I'm
on the fence.
Death penalty and war (not mentioned above). I take my Church's stance on this one: there is almost never any justification for either of these. Neither should be explicitly banned, but the standards that must be met for them are extremely stringent. In this regard, I suppose I'm
liberal (that's difficult to write!).
Regulating behavior (not mentioned above). I wouldn't call regulating behavior "conservative." I hate it when liberal government tries to force people into cars they don't want, or to ban food and beverages that are unhealthful. I support the idea behind improving health and the environment -- I just think it's a horrible idea for the government to legislate it through bans on certain personal behaviors. In this regard, I suppose I am a hybrid of
libertarian/conservative.
Bottom line: I will address every issue on its own merits, and my opinions do change over time. I wish more people ON ALL SIDES would open their minds a bit and escape the trappings of extreme ideology and "us versus them" mentality of party politics.