You seem to be saying that rape is, by definition, a gender-motivated hate crime. All it would take to disprove that position is a single example of a rape that does not fall into that category. So how about a case of statutory rape, whereby two young people who have the hots for each other have sex, but happen to be on opposite sides of some arbitrary age line laid down in a statute? That's not a gender-motivated hate crime, now is it?