Oh do I love crowd sourcing advice from the MMM community!!!
We spent a full day at the Smithsonian last week and my middle child, the one whose personality I worry about for traveling, loved DC the most. I'm getting excited about these plans!!
@ixtap I checked out the sailing Zatara family. So interesting!! I love to learn about families that aren't afflicted with ivy league preschool syndrome.
@reeshau Yes the 3 months is related to visa limitations. I am a software engineer and can work anywhere. However I do not want to work for a few years- it's so easy to get a decent paying job, my motto is on-and-off FIREing.
@FLBiker Wow, you've experienced a lot! I think if family is stable, like parents are reliable and helpful and empathetic, kids can deal with a little bit of traveling instability?
@Sibley I just don't know what to pick... what if we hate it and we're stuck for a year or two? I'd rather travel around for a bit and let the kids choose where they want to live. I loved Ushiaia, but wasn't there in the winter. I loved Bariloche, but how long will it take to find a place that's walkable but yet not on a busy road, I loved Agordo but it's not really bikeable and we needed a car to get to the mountains (maybe buses?), I loved Tromso and St Gallen and Interlaken but that would blow our travel budget, I loved Antigua (Guatemala) but was ready to move on after a month, I loved Akademgorodok but what if Russia starts killing its neighbors (oops that already happened), I loved Bamako but couldn't handle that weather for a long time, I loved New Zealand but that's not a language difference. How to choose??? I don't think we can afford to rent a place *and* do trips. That's paying 2x housing which doesn't align with my mustachian values.
@sadiesortsitout I agree but my youngest will be 5 and my oldest 10 so I think that's the best compromise. I hear kids don't want anything to do with their parents around age 12, so hoping to be back in the US (or settle down somewhere else) by then.
@reeshau "grow a global citizen who can become comfortable in some circumstance other than the one they are currently in"
Yes 100%!!!! It's about seeing there are other ways to live and other cultures and values and histories.
@PDXTabs YES! Why not do it, right???? What is there to lose except for a US centric mindset? This is the mustachian attitude I expected!
@sadiesortsitout We spent a few months in the midwest this summer, cousins galore! The kids loved it, and I enjoyed a lot of aspects (Native culture, lakes, less of a rat race). My mental health would deteriorate if I was forced to move back there, however.
@Dee18 I think part of the adventure/fun is the challenge of learning the public transit system, finding the best grocery store and what items we want to purchase, learning the basics of the language as a foundation (later they can choose what language they want to specialize in). A series of family vacations sounds AMAZING to me. We are trying to go to places where we kinda know at least one person and they can help introduce us to more. We've hosted a lot of couch surfers, met a lot of international students at university, and stayed at couch surfers all over the world.
@ysette9 What an amazing experience you are giving your kids, that sounds great!!! I love the idea of camps rather than full-time school. I love the idea of a home exchange that's free but we live in Northern California and can't afford our mortgage if we're not working, so part of the appeal of traveling is staying in cheaper places so our money lasts longer. What site do you use? If we don't decide to leave and travel, maybe that can be a good compromise.
We absolutely loved Huaraz Peru when we were there a decade ago and kept in touch with a few people. A friend of a friend of a friend runs this school, the school year is March-December:
https://www.waldorftoday.com/2012/03/semillas-de-vida-sowing-seeds-of-life-in-peru/We're trying to figure out how to make that work in some capacity. LOTS of planning and weighing different ideas. The planning/dreaming part is almost as exciting as the doing part.