Thank you! Yes, we have checked and can transfer into another retirement account without penalty. Assuming all things are equal, it seems it would be better to pax the tax now, as it is more likely I will be paying more in tax later during retirement??
Most people will pay less tax in retirement. Are you asking us or telling us here - there are question marks. If you earn nice salaries now and live on less than you make, when you start drawing your retirement funds you will only take out what you need, correct? If that's the case, your taxable income will go down. Here's a very basic, rough example (and I'm just throwing out random numbers here, so don't bother checking the facts or asking why someone would need $70K to live on, it's just an example):
Current income $100,000
Retirement Savings -10,000 This will go away completely in retirement
SS & Medicare Tax - 7,650 This will go away completely in retirement
Fed/State Tax
-15,000 This will go down because of the other two above that disappear
Net Living Expenses 67,350
So if you can live on $67,350 now, and you can continue to live on that in retirement (adjusted for inflation) then you would only need to draw about $80K from retirement funds giving you about $67K after taxes. This doesn't consider many other things like a paid off mortgage, less commuting costs, less everything else, so you might not even need the full "net living expenses" you currently have. Of course some expenses like health insurance can go up, so factor that into your model, but most people will spend less and pay less tax in retirement.