Thanks for pointing me toward Investopedia. It looks to me like we could make the following tax advantaged contributions, assuming we have the income and we do (~$110,000 this year):
His 401k: $17,500 (max)
His IRA: $5,500 (max)
My IRA: $5,500 (max, technically out of his income)
My Solo 401k: as much as we choose, up to my net income for the given year, should be ~$4,000 after expenses this year
Am I reading all of this right? Is there some declaration we would need to make regarding the spousal IRA contribution or is it simply assumed when we file jointly?