I had no idea boarder42 was back! Glad to hear, even though I didn’t care for all of his DPOYM comments.
I get that.
Background from Dicey's personal point of view: b42 and others, including Dicey, were participating in the Mortgage Payoff thread when it got started, trying to present multiple options. People got pissed, so I suggested b42 start another thread, which he promptly did. Almost immediately thereafter, the mods asked certain people to stop participating in the MP thread, which we did. It seems there was no tolerance for any other options, it was to be a celebration/encouragement thread only.
Unfortunately, some of the MP crowd felt it wasn't enough that we'd started a different thread and walked away. A few vocal people hopped on and started being critical of the DPOYM concept, and b42 specifically. b42 stood his ground, but eventually got tired of the critics. He exploded a couple of times, and the rest is history...
What I tend to hear again and again in the oldster crowd (which is definitely where I fit in, not b42), is that people are house poor and regret focusing too much on Killing the Mortgage at the expense of other saving/investing. Typically, by then it's too damn late, because the opportunity for compound interest to do the heavy lifting fades with each passing year. My postition has always been learn the facts first, then make the best decision possible. Don't just glom on to a fucking Dave Ramsey sound bite and hope for the best.
Full disclosure: only three of the four homes we own have mortgages. We are FI, and I've been RE since 2012. And for God's sake, if you live somewhere where mortgages aren't fixed or tax deductible, please look the other way. I have no advice for you.
As for b42, I doubt he'll be participating in his old thread, but he still has plenty of wisdom to share. He is one smart mustachian dude and I'm sure there's plenty we can learn from him.
Oh, and at one point, someone, probably long gone by now, accused us of being the same person, which I thought was hilarious. I only aspire to have his clarity and wisdom.
Finally, one might ask why I defend b42. It's not that often in life you find people willing to help others that they don't now and probably never will know. b42 is one of those rare souls. He was so determined to help people learn the facts that his passion became his undoing. I'm glad he's back. I thank the moderators for allowing it to happen and b42 for being willing to try again.
@gardenstash, if this is TMI for your thread, please ping me and I'll move it.