Don't have any dry powder to invest in individual stocks myself, but Kinder Morgan would be a low priority investment in that sector personally. I'd want a stake in at least 3 of the majors be even considering KMI, and even then there's the basket approach of an oil ETF.
Not mentioned in this thread but KMI is down not just because of oil but IIRC because they fucked a lot of people over in the reorganization from a MLP earlier this year.
Im 50/50. I do 50% funds and 50% individual securities.
I do invest in both Exxon and Conoco monthly but will probably narrow that to one [while still keeping the other] in the near future to concentrate my investments. I want to build a more sizable position. Both are life time holds. I have committed myself to go into debt before I sell them. I will set them payout dividends to help me pay off whatever if I get in trouble. [I view them the same way you would a retirement account].
Kinder Morgan has been an interest for a while. Its in my top ten but crashing the way they did proved too tempting to turn away. Just to be clear they did cut the dividend further than I thought they would. I thought they might do 50% leaving them with a 6.5% yield. So the scale of the cut was a shock but I knew going in they was a good chance they were going to. Yes that is a betrayal of trust but after Kinder wipes the egg off his face I believe he will return to growing the dividend and expanding at a much more cautious rate. I could be wrong but I think he is honorable and will learn from this. I also thinks the assets are too great just to write off this company as crap for making a mistake.
and to answer the other questions
yes married.. house [dont get me started], and two kids [yes I invest for them $50 a month since birth.. so does my wife, so does grandma].
Yes it might bite me [my investing method] but I figure its better than the motorcycle I want that everyone else seems to chase at this age.
I really want to throw all my money [including what would be funds this year] into the big oils and REITs but I am tempering myself and insuring some safety net.