I took some gains off the top from the stache, and bought a (high quality, and undervalued, beautiful) engagement ring. It's still slightly frustrating, but keep in mind you now are a pair! 4 hands are better than 2! 2 Minds are usually better then one, if they both help to prevent none.
If you both are found out in the middle of no where without any materialism, you'll have a better chance of survival as a pair!.
Either way, I want modern society to take marriage and go back the way of traditional scottish marriages.
Where wedding bands were sown scarfs, and marriages had no licenses/taxes/etc. and a priest would marry you in secret if you desired.