If you want to expand upon this philosophy a bit, the book "Die With Zero" is an interesting read discussing how people's spending habits change in the last decade(s) of their life and how the marginal utility of your dollars decreases over the last 20-25% of the typical lifespan. It caused me to go from extreme hardcore FIRE saver to a more reasonable gradual saver because I realized how valuable my physical functionality mixed with my income at this age (32) is relative to 30 years from now.
I do agree with moderation in almost all things including saving. However, I disagree with marginal utility of $ going down as you get older.
My sister 71, just put her husband 79, in a nursing home two months ago with Parkinson's. The cost will be just under 90K, and that's one of the cheapest facilities in Honolulu. I did her taxes so I know she spent $53k for what was basically 40 hours of help a week @$25/hour. She spent all of Covid trying to care for him, and pretty much killed herself. Fortunately, with $1 million stash, and reasonable income from my sister's art business they have enough to keep him there for 5 years and hopefully he won't make another 10.
My mom, 96, is on year 11 or 12 of living with Alzheimer's. The expenses started with 3-4 days a week for $30k and then rapidly went to $100K year for 16-hour/day. This was in southern Oregon. We moved her to a nursing home near my other sister in northern Seattle we've been spending between 85-110K
My good friend's mom, died last year at 102, of nothing other than old age. She had been living with them since age 90. Around 95, they start getting caregivers and end up with one who got room and board and money to stay with her at night, and a team of three cared for her for M-F for about 10 hours/day total cost of about $80K
Another friend in Oakland has his mom 89, with COPD and similar ailments in a nursing home for about 4 years, about $85K
A friend in Gilroy, CA had his FIL pass last year, after living with Alzheimer's for the last 5 years. One of his wife's four sisters took care of him, but they still 50K a year on additional help.
Finally a younger friend 50, just put his mom 85, in a nursing home in St. George, Utah it is cheaper $<80K year
It seems me making sure you get fed, bathed, and don't end up in one of those awful places that will accept Medicare after you've spent all of your resources is a pretty high marginal utility to me. In fact, pretty much everyone knows, whose spouse or parent didn't die of cancer spent $50-100K the last several years of their care.
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Fortunately, in all these cases the senior citizens had sufficient resources (no one had close to sufficient income) . How many years they will continue to have the resource is a different question, generally at least 3 to 5 years.
But if you don't they you are placing a tremendous burden on your children, kid sister, or other relatives to either sacrifice several years of their life to taking care of you or a tremendous financial burden. (I think long-term care insurance is scam, but I suppose it is option, just not something I've seen many folks on the board talk about purchasing
Even if you are one of the lucky ones who's health is still good in your 80s, being able to hire people to do stuff you can't or your wife won't let you do is awfully nice. Plus flying first class, and being able to take a Viking or Regency cruise instead of Carnival are all worthwhile to many people, not me yet. Finally, you can give away your money while you are still alive and see the benefits it provides to others.