Nostache, I guess my thought is that by the time I touch these things (or do the Roth conversion ladder), I will be in a lower tax bracket so it makes sense to postpone taxes. Right? Sorry, I'm new to all this and spend my time thinking more about science than FIence! Trying to change all that... :)
Glossing over some details here, but long-term capital gains (anything held over one year) and qualified dividends are taxed at a lower rate than ordinary income. So if you want a stock index fund, and your choices are nondeductible IRA or taxable, you're never* going to pay more in taxes for the taxable account than you would pay taking IRA distributions. The only caveat is that you will owe some on your dividends every year, but you may be able to find a more tax-efficient index fund that doesn't throw off quite so much in dividends. For reference, yield on VTSAX right now is around 1.8%.
*obviously this is subject to the whims of Congress, but it's more true than not
If you do want to hold the funds in a tax-advantaged account, look up backdoor Roth.
edit: To your OP, contribute as much as possible to your 403b before you consider taxable or nondeductible IRA.