How can we glean any value from your post, when you state for example "my city has a HCOL, where should I move to", "where I live the people suck", "In my city", "my state" "my country", then never mention the location? Either add it permanently to show under your user name (best), or at least state it in anything you post... Doesn't have to be Lat/Long to 9 places giving away your home address; how about "Pittsburgh", E. WA, "Utah Co. UT"... Really frustrating tryng to make any sense from your post. Thanks.