I did this for a client who relocated a few hours away. I had no interest in doing the work for them, as it wasn't practical to travel so far. I, travelled to a true fixer-upper they had bought, spent an afternoon with them, listen to their ideas, offered suggestions, and provided an outline of how to proceed. It cost them a couple of hundred bucks, but it was money well spent, as I steered them away from some expensive and not so good ideas that they had come up with, and toward far more reasonable solutions. I'm sure that you could make similar arrangements with a local remodeler. Find somebody with a good reputation (hint, it typically isn't the guy standing in the big box store, making $10/hr) and ask them if they could do an hour or two of consulting, for a reasonable fee. Good luck.