Hi everyone, I appreciate the comments!
To answer the questions in there:
I do have some experience with working on cars, which is why I would consider taking on a bigger repair. So far easier stuff for sure - Alternator replacement, oil changes, brakes and brake caliper replacement, trailer hitch installation including hard wiring it into the car's fuse box, and lots of smaller stuff. I have an extensive tool library as I'm an independent landscaper (so good with tools and putting stuff together), somewhat lacking in specific car tools though.
This car is an absolute luxury for us, I bought it because it's kind of dumb from a tax, parking and comfort standpoint to use my work truck to take the family on vacations and also to allow for more spontaneous day trips. We went without a car (besides my work truck) for six years. If it sits for a week, it's not a big deal, we can get groceries by bike, streetcar or on foot. For the price I paid, it just has to hold out for two more years and I'll be happy.
I did read the error code using the funny pedal pushing technique and counting how many times the check engine light blinks. It is reading a bad fuel/air mixture, which lead me to think it was perhaps losing compression at the head gasket when I saw the leak. The previous owner was required to install an emissions regulator in order to meet new standards, and suggested the new part doesn't communicate well with the computer causing the check engine light to sporadically come on and go off again. Now though, the check engine light stays on all the time. I think I might try to find that device and disconnect it to see if the engine light goes off - I don't know what it looks like or where it is though!
And I feel like a bit of a goof, but this is part of the fun with these sorts of projects - the learning curve. I cleaned up the motor and chased the leak - rocker cover gasket is shot, oil leaking into the spark plug tubes and out onto the motor. Much, much easier, bought the part yesterday and will install it today. But, everyone's comments have been super helpful, and I will be taking on the timing belt and water pump - it is due before too long according to the maintenance plan.
So thanks!