I recently installed both a deck and a paver patio at my house. Here are some notes:
The case for a stone patio:Most decks have to be replaced roughly every 15-20 years. This means the thing you are building today is your own future liability. If you spend $2k in materials, that's $100-130/year in depreciation, plus the value of your labor.
Also, speaking of liability, your insurance agent will add a deck to the replacement value of your home and charge you more for insurance, but a paver patio is often overlooked as landscaping and won't add to your insurance bill.
A paver patio will last at least 50 years and may cost less in materials than a deck, depending on the price of
lumber. However, building a patio means moving hundreds of pounds of gravel and sand, and then carefully grading the sand using a 2x6 board to have a specified slope away from the house before you lay the pavers. Some skill with leveling string lines and grading is required. It may not be as economical if your space is sloped. YouTube offers lots of good videos on this technique.
Paver patio details:After you've set pavers in place, use a product called polymeric sand. Sweep the polymeric sand into the grooves between pavers, then spray with a water hose. When it dries, the pavers are basically caulked together and won't let grass grow through them. It's a great product! A $20 sack covers about the size of a bedroom.
I've not noticed the heat sink effect
@lthenderson mentions, but my paver patio uses bright gray concrete pavers and is on the north side of the house. You do need to think about heat and sun exposure when picking pavers. I used plain 12x12 concrete squares at less than $2 each.
Note that not all 12x12 squares are 12x12. When I bought all of the pavers at Lowes, I went across the street to WalMart to pick up more, but the WalMart pavers turned out to be 0.25" bigger! They ended up being used on a sidewalk and I had to find another Lowes to finish my patio!
Home improvement stores sell a dirt packing tool, but I built my own out of an old 4x4 with a small deck plank screwed on bottom and a board handle up higher. I used this to pack the gravel, then the sand into the gravel, being careful to keep my slope as planned. Then I wrapped the plank with an old towel and used it to tamp the pavers into the sand. I occassionally had to pull up a paver after tamping it to throw some more sand underneath or remove sand so it would fit flush.
Budget for 5-10% waste due to accidentally cracking patio pavers!
Not gonna lie: Paver patios are a lot more work than decks. But I think their permanence makes up for the initial investment. It's something you'll never have to fix again.
If you do go with a deck:Wrap tar paper over the tops of the joists and staple each side to the sides of the joists. Do this before laying down the planks. Why? Because this keeps water off the joists, doubles their lifespan, and allow you to reuse the joists in 15-20 years when you have to replace the planks. If you are using expensive composite planks that will last 25-30 years this makes even more sense. If you don't wrap the planks, the joists will fail before the planks!
Use bolts to attach the joists/bands to the 4x4 or 6x6 posts, and don't drill the bolt holes too large. Any other method will yield a wobbly deck.
Your home improvement store will sell pre-cut stair strainers for a lot of money. They're worth it unless you are an accomplished carpenter!
DO NOT attach the deck to your house. Build it to stand on its own legs. I just had to replace a bunch of rotted out support beams under my house because the PO hung the deck on the brick veneer, creating an issue where water was funneled through the brinks to the crawl space. A free-standing deck is also much easier for inspectors to inspect. And they will inspect it. The attachment point to the house is
usually where decks fail, in addition to creating water intrusion issues. Plus, think ahead to 15-20 years when you'll be rebuilding the deck and how nice it will be to not have to work over the house interface!
You should stain or paint your non-composite deck to get a couple more years out of it. Consider that a dark color or stain will get hot in the sun, and will show pollen and dust. Let the new lumber dry out for 6 months before painting, and sand the wood with an electric sander before painting it.